Day 79 – Just Precious

With April just one day away I starting thinking today of maybe just one or two precious decorative items I could add to the house. Every month on the 1^st day of the month, I change my wreath or decorative door piece and I have one all ready to go for tomorrow. So, I started going through some of my items I have stored away trying to decide what I wanted as a table centerpiece.

I came across the cutest little bunny I had stored away. I pulled him out and a bag of decorative straw. I decided to arrange them on my favorite small appetizer stand that I made myself a while back with tons of gold glitter and a whole lot of glossy Mod Podge. Anyhow, so I arranged the straw on the stand and put the bunny right in the center. Simple, cute and sparkly! I am perfectly happy with the outcome and it was a sweet and simple intention on this busy, busy day. #HGAL

 

Day 78 – New Indulgence

Early this evening, I found myself with some down time. Vinny was at work and Elijah off to practice. All of my days to-do’s had been completed. It has actually been a very good day. So I sat down, popped on the TV and decided for today’s intention to go ahead and indulge in a new series. I have wanted to see the new E series The Royals but haven’t had the chance as yet.

I must admit, I am totally in love with this show (as I knew I would be). Once I was done catching up on the episodes I missed, I went ahead and added the series to my upcoming DVR recordings (yay)!

I don't watch a lot of TV per se, I have my specific shows I love to watch or record. Vinny and I have our faves that we watch together as well. When I was younger I actually went a couple of years without even having cable/satellite because watching TV just seemed like such a waste of my life- I was always on the run doing something or caught up in the kids’ activities, having company or at someone else's house and whatnot. I still don’t watch a lot of television but I must admit being here has slowed things down a bit (for now anyways) so I watch a bit more than usual for me. I am still particular and selective with what I watch but this is definitely a new addition and made for a fabulous QT intention for my day. #cheers

Day 77 – Google and Go

I love Sundays. Family time, slow mornings, good food, enjoying the outdoors or whatever it may bring….Sundays are always amazing.

Today we spent a pretty significant amount of time at the beach. It was super sunny and like 40 degrees out which felt like 75 to pretty much everyone around here. The beach was full of people walking, kids playing, people jogging or others just sitting and soaking in all the glorious sun had to offer. There were dogs, surfers and even one brave swimmer. After our beach time we went on a bit of a scenic drive around. I still love exploring the area and stumbling upon things we didn’t know were here.

Anyhow, we stopped at the store later in the afternoon to pick up some dinner supplies. As we were driving we were contemplating what to make. I decided for my intention today to try something completely new. I googled “what should I make for dinner tonight” and decided to make the first thing I saw. OMG- it is definitely a new favorite for our family- it was DELISH!!! Vinny and I came home and cooked it together. I only made a couple of tweaks to the original recipe. It took no longer than about 30 min or so which was very impressive. We all loved it and I am super happy to have taken a risk outside my comfort zone. I am sharing the recipe (with the changes I made) for whoever may be interested… take a chance, you just may love it. #HappySunday #HGAL

Ingredients:

1-2 lbs red potatoes, cubed

3 tbsp water

1 pkg Johnsonville Andouille (use both pieces), cut to ¼ in slices

Olive oil

2 tbsp brown sugar

2 tbsp cider vinegar

1 tbsp Dijon mustard

¼ tsp basil; ¼ tsp dried parsley

¼ tsp pepper

4 c fresh baby spinach

6 pieces cooked bacon; crumbled

Directions:

Place potatoes and water in a microwave safe dish. Cover and microwave on high for 4 min; drain.

In a large skillet, sauté Andouille in olive oil for about 5-6 min. Add potatoes; sauté 3-5 min longer or under they are lightly browned.

Combine the brown sugar, vinegar, mustard and seasonings-- stir into skillet. Bring to a boil.

Reduce heat; simmer, uncovered, for 2-3 min or until heated through.

Add spinach and bacon; cook and stir until spinach is wilted.

One word: YUMMILICIOUS!!

 

 

Day 76 – Silly Girl

Tonight over dinner I was talking to Vinny and Elijah and I mentioned that I still needed to do something for today’s intention. Elijah mentioned that he didn’t have many memories about Heather. I forget sometimes how young he really was back then. There are pictures of him and the kids playing but he was still so little. So he suggested we just talk about her for a while. I thought that was a wonderful idea for an intention.

I went and got my box of pictures and pulled out some random ones and started telling him specific things about Heather. I tried to imitate her laugh the best I could. Her laugh was regional- totally unique. I imitated the silly, silly way she used to call out “momma” or “momma-dare” (like “momma there” but she’d say it super fast) to her mom to mess with her. I told him she was a nut in the best way- from the time we were kids and all the way through adulthood. Her and her silly faces, crazy little joking ways, quick wit and so much more.

I showed him pictures and am including one of her and my brother, my sister and a couple of friends with mouths full of grapes making silly faces. I showed him pictures from her first time drinking alcohol at a party and told him THAT nutty story. Vinny shared some of his stories that he had as well.

I loved this intention today sharing stories, memories and smiling about Heather... that silly girl. #HGAL365 #loveher #missherlaugh #sharethememories #weweresillytogetheralways

 

Day 75 – Sparkle On…

So, this whole week has been pretty much a wash due to this nasty cold. But I am proud that no matter what- I made sure to complete my intentions and write in the blog each day. Today Vinny stayed home from work to take care of me. He cooked, he cleaned, he went to pick up my prescription and supplies and all that good stuff.

Anyhow, the way I’ve always seen it is, when life sits you down that surely doesn’t give you a reason to not “sparkle on.” I learned that many years ago- when I was looking at some pictures of myself during a “rough patch” of my life. Yikes! The pictures hardly looked like me at all! I told myself right then and there that no matter what was going on in my life or if I was sick or whatnot- I would do everything I could to stay me.

I’ve always been a girlie girl, love the color pink, frilly and sparkly things, make-up, shopping and shoes…yada, yada, yada. So, for today’s intention- although I was still pretty under the weather, I got dressed for my day including make-up and hair fully done. But today I added an extra touch- a sparkly sweater. I may not feel well but I don’t need to look like it. And although I still spent much of my day on the couch watching Vinny hustle and bustle all about, at least I felt like I looked my best (although coughing like a maniac couldn’t look that great no matter how much make-up you have on) lol.

In fact, writing this today makes me think of a certain picture on the wall at Heathers house. She has no hair at all but she looks so beautiful! Her makeup is flawless and she still had the world’s best smile on her face. This is exactly what I mean. She may not have felt good that day, it was certainly a rough time of her life but she still clearly never lost that piece of herself, her “sparkle”. It was beautiful, inspiring and heartwarming. #HGAL #neverloseyoursparkle

Day 74 – Playlist

I was proud and inspired by my intention yesterday. It felt so good to be completing a project so near and dear to my heart. Along that same line, for today’s intention I decided to make a new playlist in my phone entitled “Because I Can.” This will be my inspirational playlist. It will be the music I turn to if I find that I have let too much time pass in between the habits I’ve included in my life that this blog has re-inspired me to embrace - including completing my book, getting better at playing the guitar, being fluent in Italian and more. Or… I can turn to it when I want to sing like no one can hear me or begin a beautiful day.

I couldn’t possibly list them all, but just for the fun of it I will share with you some of the songs on this playlist that inspire me and get me going…

•  Shake It Off- Taylor Swift (yes…I love her!)
• I lived- OneRepublic
• Day One- Matthew West
• Try- Pink
• Exceptional- JoJo
• Don’t Stop Believin’- Journey
• The Climb- Miley Cyrus (that’s right, I adore her too – especially her song “Adore You” lol)
• Freckles- Natasha Bedingfield
• The Show- Lenka
• Girl on Fire- Alicia Keys
• Live Your Life- TI
• Wake Me Up- Avicii
• Feel This Moment- Pitbull
• Stand- Lenny Kravitz
• This is Me- Demi Lovato & Joe Jonas
• Three Little Birds- Bob Marley
• We Can’t Stop- Miley Cyrus
• Scream & Shout- will.i.am
• Realize- Colbie Caillat
• Next to Me- Emeli Sande
• All About That Bass- Meghan Trainor
• Happy- Pharrell Williams

I also love pretty much everything by Christina Aguilera, Lisa Marie Presley, Pink and Mariah and have included many songs by these talented Divas as well. Anyhow, maybe by sharing a portion of my inspirational playlist- maybe I have introduced some awesome, fun music to some of my readers. I’m still fairly under the weather so this was all I could muster for the day. I must admit, going through hearing these songs had me surely smiling. Not to mention Jen brought me Starbucks and a get well gift today (I’m so impressed by my friends). Cheers to good friends, good music and good health. #HGAL

Day 73 – Unfinished business

Since today was another day of rest and relaxation due to this cold I am still fighting (and one can only sit listening to music and or watching TV for so long) I decided today for my intention to pick up something I put away quite a few years ago. I have some unfinished business that has been weighing heavily on my mind these days.

I began writing a book many years ago and was very passionate about it. After about 2 years into it, as it got closer and closer to being completed, life began to happen. Or should I say I allowed life to happen and redirect my efforts. My family and friends that had seen what I was writing strongly encouraged me to continue my pursuit.  Truth be told- I don’t remember the day or specific reason why I put it away. Maybe I was afraid to expose my writing style, thoughts, time, energy and effort publicly. Maybe that is why it has been on my mind so much lately… because I am learning to just write my thoughts my way and let the chips fall where they may and have been very happy with the outcome.

I figure, the entire premise of this blog is about honoring Heather’s life that ended way too soon, the importance of fully embracing my life while I can, living my life with intention and taking chances to experience more aspects of life offered every...single....day.

If there was one thing about myself that I have always loved, nurtured and respected- it was my free spirited nature- never afraid to make a change or have new experiences. Which is why it is weird to think “Did I somehow let fear censor me into never completing my book- something I was truly passionate and excited about?”

The very instant I picked up the pages I had previously written, I felt an overwhelming sense of urgency to complete what I had started. I got excited. I started writing and everything seemed to just flow relatively effortlessly. Whether this book gets published or just bound and given to my family and friends, I will complete this unfinished project in my life, honoring my passion of writing and thus honoring my life and Heathers!   #finishwhatyoustart #nofear #becauseIcan #HGAL

Day 72 – Light Yoga

Whatever little cold that was trying to sneak up on me yesterday got a hold of me last night. I can’t even remember the last time I had a cold and now I’m getting the second one since we moved here 9 months ago. So today I decided to slow things down, honor my body and just take care of myself (and Elijah cause he is home for the second day in a row- but is doing much, much better thank goodness). My lovely friend Lena made me some soothing, delicious, homemade tea that I am currently sipping on. I thought that was such a nice gesture and will be sure to take her to lunch or something once I’m better to show my appreciation.

Meanwhile, for today’s intention I decided to Google the best yoga poses to practice when you are sick. Although the deep breathing was a bit uncomfortable, I just went slow and did about 20 minutes of soft, calm poses with nice slow breathing. I dampened a small kitchen towel, sprinkled some Lavender Oil on it and heated it just to the point of steaming. Eyes closed, I slowly inhaled the aromatic steam and just reminded myself that I am healthy and am allowing my body to simply relax and repair itself. I have always loved Yoga for just that reason. It forces me to slow down and be conscious of every single breath. It calms my mind and body and puts me in such a great frame of mind, whether I am feeling 100% or not.

Being under the weather today and as I write this blog- it makes me think and wish I would have been strong enough to have been there in Heather’s time of need. However, I am thankful that I am making great strides in my life with this blog and allowing myself to be healed, forgiven and restored. #HGAL #lessonslearned

Day 71 – Candlelight

As usual we were up bright and early. Jen and I met for an early AM walk but had to cut it short because although it was bright and sunny- it was very cold and windy. We stopped for a smoothie then made our way back home.

Today was a pretty typical Monday - a little of this….a little of that….housework, cooking, etc. It got me thinking about my intention for the day and what I would do. I was going to go to my friend’s yoga class this evening but decided to stay out of the cold for the rest of today cause I may be getting a little cold.

So instead, I decided to add a special touch to our evening right here at home. Tonight, we had dinner by candlelight- TV off, soft music playing in the background. There were lights on in the background but the candles illuminated our area nicely. It was a simple touch but felt classy, elegant and truly lovely. As the author Jennifer L. Scott mentions in both her books "Lessons from Madame Chic" and  “At Home with Madame Chic”, there is a huge difference between eating and dining. I am embracing the art and elegance of true dining.

Anyhow, as we dined, I mentioned I would like to get in the habit of having a more formal style dinner more often- tablecloths, centerpieces, dinner music, etc. Both Vinny and my son said that would be great.  Most evenings we are able to have dinner together as a family, which I truly treasure and appreciate but this would be an amazing touch.

So, there it is- an intentional addition to our dinner time for a family well worth the extra effort.  

Day 70 – New Beach

It was a glorious, bright and sunny morning. It was windy and chilly but I will not let that bother me even one single bit! I am a sun bunny and thrive on waking up right along with the magnificent sun.

After a little bit of a lazy morning and nice family breakfast, my youngest was not feeling his best so wanted to rest up for the day in preparation for the week ahead. I told Vinny I thought we should either go for a scenic drive for my intention or go visit a new beach, I’d let him choose. He opted to go visit a new beach but we ended up doing a bit of a scenic drive as well once we were out and about.

We visited the Sachuest Beach in our neighboring town, Middletown. I love the small sand dunes that surround this particular beach. There are also a multitude of long sea oats lining the other side of the street swaying beautifully in the wind. There are large rock masses and a plethora of seashells and clams lining a long, pale, fine sandy beach. There was a guy that was skateboard surfing in the parking lot, taking full advantage of the beachside winds, which was fun to see.

After running around a bit, we decided to go out and use my winnings from Bingo on Day 60 for a nice afternoon drink and lunch at the Wharf Pub. When we arrived, there was a man on a guitar offering a live music background. I love music so much but I especially love live pub, cabaret or bar music. Something about it just makes me smile. After we left, we headed home for some carrot cake (yea- I’m still at it!). I made my son some chicken soup and tended to him a bit. We are going to end our evening with a couple of movies and are currently taking in a beautiful sunset- filling the deck and living room of our home. Happy Sunday to all of my readers- I wish you all a blessed and amazing week ahead. #HGAL #SundayFunday  

 

Day 69 – With one touch of color

A little birdie told me Spring started yesterday. Being that it snowed both last night and into the afternoon today, I thought that birdie must have been drunk and crazy. LOL

I woke up to another grey, gloomy day here in good ‘ol New England. The snow was coming down like crazy. After our coffee and breakfast we decided to get on out of the house, go by the beach, run some errands and see where our day took us. It was a truly lovely morning I must admit. We ended up at the grocery store and as soon as we walked in, I knew exactly what my intention would be. I told Vinny, “we need some springtime color in the house to brighten up these gloomy days.” He said that was a great idea.

We looked at pretty much every plant, flower and bouquet offered. We were sniffin away and comparing what we thought would be best. I walked over to an especially bright and extremely fragrant Hyacinth. Vinny immediately said, “Yup, that’s it! You’re favorite color pink and it smells awesome and looks healthy.” So there it was. I must admit, I love that he gets completely involved with everything I feel is important- he has been that way from the beginning. He is especially on board with anything to do with this blog and my intentions. He adored Heather and they always had so much fun together when we all were around.

Shortly after we got home, I was making us all a big batch of chicken nachos for lunch. I put the flowers on one of my favorite stands and placed it in the middle of our table right where it will receive a nice amount of pm sun exposure. Anyhow, I noticed the craziest thing… Shortly after I placed the flowers on the table, the sun came out! It’s still shining so bright and vibrant, even now as I write this. I snapped a picture of my favorite part of the sunshine from my home-the glistening sun making what my friend Kathy says “diamonds on the water.” Beautiful. And to think, with just one touch of color I feel like Spring has sprung into my afternoon!

Morning snow-Hyacinth-Afternoon sun glisten

Vinny & Heather Circa 2004

 

 

Day 68 – Raw Juice Bar

My husband and I recently met the owner of a new Raw Juice Bar that opened not far from my home. They offer a wide variety of juices, smoothies, salads and soups as well as both breakfast and lunch options. We’ve been meaning to make our way there to try it out.

Today, Jen and I went on a fairly early morning walk. We walked for at least 5-6 miles. It’s supposed to snow later this afternoon and it definitely felt like snow is coming. There was a chill in the air and the sky was grey and fairly gloomy. But our walk was brisk, the conversation light and cheery and the morning was truly wonderful.

We stopped back at my house to warm up and have some coffee. As we were chatting, I mentioned to her that on a previous walk with Lena, I had a chance to pick up a menu from the new juice bar and how much I was dying to try it. I told her… it would be a great intention for the day if she was in (and she was). I love how these intentions are reminding me to stop saying “I’m going to” or “I have to soon” and when the opportunity presents itself- just do it. So, off we went.

When we got there we ordered, sat and just took our surroundings in. Being that we have both at different times in our lives lived in California, we noticed how much this place reminded us of a beachside California type of hangout. There were plants hanging and placed around the shop everywhere, giving the place a very earthy feel. The vibe was very west coast with a twist of hippie and I felt right at home (lol). When they brought us our smoothies we were even further delighted. They were colorful, healthy and delish!!

I do believe I found my new favorite place on the island. The people are smiley and friendly, the product is delicious, the atmosphere is soothing and I am so happy to have tried it today! #cheers #HGAL

Day 67 – Favorite Things Party

For today’s intention, I attended a get together with a group of Lena’s friends. Last week, she invited me to a “Favorite Things Party” for tonight. This is the same theme as the social outing I went to on day 32. The difference with this one is each person brings 5 of the same item to exchange so that everybody gets one of each thing and this one had a $5 limit. I made 5 more of the clam jewelry holders that were such a big hit before and they were well received again tonight. It’s kind of bazaar that I have never been to one of these parties and I have been to 2 within about a month- lol.

When we arrived, the ladies were very nice and receptive. We all snacked and chatted about some of our favorite things- TV shows, movies, foods, apps, etc. It was an easy and engaging way to not only learn more about each other but also a great way to find out about some stuff we weren’t necessarily aware of (different good books out, neat apps and so on).

Anyhow, I do love that I am starting to be further immersed into the community here. This get together was off the island which is nice to be expanding socially further out. I enjoyed the relaxed atmosphere, easy conversation and coming home with quite a few goodies again. I ended up briefly mentioning my blog when I suggested we take a picture and was able to talk about the fact that this blog is in memory of Heather and living life with intention. And with that her memory was shared and she was honored again today with a very nice group of ladies. #greatnight #HGAL

Day 66 – Summer Plans

Today I had quite a few things on my to-do list and thankfully was able to complete all items. Today’s intention required a bit of quiet, research, focus, imagination and time.

For my intention today I decided to plan activities for my summer. When I first started this blog, I did not want to plan everything out rather, allow my intentions to be determined by my day. I will say however, that I feel that researching the activities offered in and around my area and actually planning specific things to do would give me a much fuller summer. It will make for more interesting living and for you (my lovely readers) hopefully continue to offer interesting reading.

I could have never imagined when I began this entire project that I would actually be affecting others’ lives. Obviously, this began as an epiphany of sorts on how to honor my cousin, Heather. I have received so many emails, FB IM’s and phone calls since this began with positive, loving and encouraging words from people I know as well as perfect strangers that I sincerely feel both honored and inspired to reach further. You know what they say “Reach for the moon and even if you miss you’ll land amongst the stars.”

I intend to do everything I wrote on my list today and so much more. I have researched and located in the New England area everything from concerts and festivals, ballet and plays, marathons and races, fashion and art shows to visiting and exploring Niagra Falls, Martha’s Vineyard, the Cape and NYC and so much in between. I will not give it all away so that there will always be an element of surprise for my readers. Every day cannot be an outing but I will continue making every day intentional.

I eagerly anticipate many intentions to come as the good weather gets closer by the day. I’d like to take this moment as well to say thank you to those that continue to read this blog, to those that have sent me emails with your encouraging and loving feedback and I do hope and pray that this journey I’m on inspires every reader to live each and every day with intention, inspiration, creativity, appreciation and happiness. #HGAL365 #blessed #everydayisbeautiful

Day 65 – Perfume & Art

The first half of the day today was grey, gloomy, chilly and rainy. Although the sun did not greet me this morning, I woke up in a fabulous mood- nice and early and had my morning coffee with Vinny, my favorite time of day. Once everyone was off for the day, after breakfast I sat on the couch for a bit. Realizing I was starting to wrap myself up in the cozy, plush couch blanket and watch a movie, I had to shake it off and make myself get up and get ready for my day. I put some music on, and got all dressed up. I tried something new with my makeup and was totally excited with the outcome.

Then, just to put a little extra happy in my day and combat the gloominess outside, I sprayed an extra amount of perfume! I am always so cautious to not overdo it when it comes to perfume when I am out and about. But the fact of the matter is I absolutely love perfume! I have many different ones and my choice depends on my mood, the activity I’m doing or whatever. Today I actually put on an “old classic” that I always have in my stock: Victoria’s Secret Very Sexy. This is actually the perfume I was wearing when I met Vinny 12 years ago.

Anyhow, I decided that for my intention today I would bring out some blank canvases and see where my creativity would take me today. I haven’t been doing as much canvas art lately, I’ve mostly been focused on small furniture pieces and other smaller craft items for my booth. With the music going and the scent of perfume filling the air- I just started painting. I paused only when my son got home from school to have a snack with him. I ended up completing 3 pieces. I took 2 of them out to the deck and spray painted a very thin glittery/shimmery overlay and it was the perfect touch. When the sunlight hits them, they very subtly sparkle.

By late afternoon, although it was quite windy, the sun was out and the air was balmy. I enjoyed a quick walk with one of my friends. Today was a great intention. I thought of Heather today and paused to appreciate the beauty this blog brings me each and every day. #HGAL #creativityrules

Day 64 – Cakepop Cheers

Today was a sunny, beautiful, fairly breezy day. Although there was still a little nip in the air, this was the type of day that you absolutely want to be outside. After such a frigid, record breaking winter- these types of days you must embrace and fully appreciate.

This morning was a typical Monday- housework, cooking and talking on the phone a bit. This afternoon however, I went on a walk with my friend Lena. We walked just shy of 4 miles. I always enjoy our walks. We always have such great conversation. We enjoy looking at the unique architecture the island has to offer. The variety of homes in New England are truly amazing I must admit. Some even seem to tell a story. I enjoy all of the colors and rooftops, nooks and crannies that driving by just does not allow time to notice.

Anyhow, when we got back I had a quick snack then went to meet my friend Jen for another afternoon walk. I have no idea how far we went. All I know is we walked for a solid 2 hours. At one point we stopped at Starbucks to use the facilities and I got an idea for a great intention for my day. I got us both a cake pop (pink ones are my fave!). We went over to the dock area and did a “cheers” with our delicious treats before enjoying them.  Cheers to a beautiful day, cheers to health and life, cheers to friendship, cheers to the tasty treat, cheers to the upcoming summer, cheers to this day’s blog intention, cheers to Heather. We did not specify what the “cheers” was too but I like to think it was to any and all of these things.

Day 63 – Underdog

Vinny’s daughter has 3 kids ages 13, 7 and 20 months, which makes me a Grandma (a very young Grandma – lol). I love these kids so much. During the party yesterday, the 7 year old (Aiden) asked me if he could stay the night with us. Obviously the answer was yes. So today was Aiden's day.

Every morning I tend to my plants. He had a very particular interest in what I was doing. He got in there and helped me locate and pinch off any dead leaves in my very large lavender plant. We talked about my succulent and cactus, my peace lily and shamrock. I promised him when the farmers market comes back I would take him to pick out his own lavender plant and I would show him how to be a part of helping something to grow and flourish. He was so excited at that which to me was just awesome.

After my morning routine was complete, he- Vinny and I headed over to the beach for a walk. Vinny showed him how to crush dry clams and they had fun for a while doing that. (boys!- lol) It was beautiful and sunny out so we just walked around for a bit. Then we took him to the beach playground. We all played on the swings for a while.

With that I found the moment to complete my intention. I had an immediate memory come right into my mind. Therefore, in a nod to the days of Heather and I as kids playing on the swings- I gave Aiden an underdog! He didn’t know what it was so imagine his surprise when I told him to hold on tight and I just went for it! Holding the chains, I reared the swing back, held for a sec and ran all the way under him and let him swing on back. Vinny was laughing and Aiden was crackin up!! It was higher than when Vinny was pushing him but he loved it just like we did when we were kids.

Anyhow, after the beach we came home and I made the whole family a big brunch. After a little clean up, we ran errands and just had fun hanging out with the little guy. I love this age, he is so full of personality and you just never know what he is going to say. We played games, had some snacks, then a great dinner and of course ice cream as we all watched a couple of movies and hung out. He is totally into my blog and both last night and tonight (yea he stayed another night lol) he sat right by me wanting to see every word I typed which I think is so awesome. This entire visit he was truly my little shadow and I must admit…I loved every single moment of it. #wishmykidswerelittlestill #timeflies #greatweekend #HGAL

Aiden tending to my plant

Our beach morning

Day 62 – St. Patty’s Day Parade

The St. Patrick’s Day Parade was today. The intention for my day was to host a gathering. The path of all parades in this town goes directly by my house so we can just sit out on the deck and watch as they go by. So, we had the family with all the kids and grandkids, some friends and some of my son’s friends over to enjoy the festivities. (17 people- definitely a full house).

Of course I had to put my little St. Patty’s touch to the situation so in the true spirit of the day I made green Rice Krispy treats with Lucky Charm marshmallows in them, I made an extra-large Shamrock out of cucumber slices with ranch dip, green chocolate chip cookies, a cool whip green pistachio dip with Nilla wafers, green floats (like Root Beer floats but made out of sherbet and Ginger Ale). I also put out green grapes, kiwi and green apples- perfectly festive and lively. In the afternoon we had an indoor cookout (lol) hot dogs/burgers and chips. Totally easy breezy which freed up my time to visit with family and friends and watch the parade.

It actually was raining a bit today but that didn’t stop us, the parade or the mass amount of people running about town! We all went to our deck and watched as the parade went by as well as all the crazy (mostly drunken) people running about. It really was a great day! My grandson Aiden even lost a tooth today!  I love being able to be a part of such important milestones. #HGAL #lifescelebrations

Day 61 - Listening

We all have our times of getting caught up in the hectic pace of life (some more than others I’m sure). We all find our own unique ways of unwinding whether it be a hobby or habit of some sort. Some of us ladies may unwind with a day of shopping or a long, hot bubble bath- others with a glass of wine- some with all three. A man may unwind with watching sports or playing fantasy leagues or maybe having a couple of beers and a cigar. Teenagers may find peace in their own way by playing video games or chatting on the phone with their friends.

I was going and going today. I had a bit of a busy morning, a nice mid-day tea time with my neighbor followed by a nice long walk. I was party planning since early this morning for the St. Patty’s Day Parade that will go right by my house tomorrow, so we are having some people over and I was getting that all organized and everything situated today.

So, I sat down when everything was done to take a breath before dinner. I was going to pop on the TV for a bit but instead I decided to just sit for a moment. I was looking out of my window and taking in all of the beautiful colors in the sky as the sun made it's descent. The water was an extremely dark blue/grey tonight which made it look especially cold. While I was sitting there, I realized all the sounds my home was being filled with for really being so quiet. There is usually music or TV or talking going on but at this moment it’s just quiet….and yet it’s not.

I decided to just sit a bit and take it all in. I heard the sounds of my clocks ticking, sea birds calling to each other outside and singing about, cars motoring by, random people walking around outside talking and laughing, car doors closing, a horn beeping, music playing from a car and I even heard someone do a loud whistle. I didn’t sit for real long (maybe 20 minutes) but I did sit long enough to simply enjoy the melody of life around me. I must admit, I do love the melody, the hummm and the buzz of the unique blend of downtown city/oceanside living.

It was a good intention for a busy day. I suppose depending on where one lives, each person’s melody of life sounds different. I’m sure the day, season, and hour make the sounds vary as well. I will say, it’s a nice way to ground yourself for even a moment during hectic or stressful times or even just as a break from a lovely day to just sit still, breathe and enjoy life’s sounds. #dontmisslifesmelody #HGAL365

Day 60 – BINGO!!

Last week my friend Jen invited me to go tonight with the group of girls from the social club to go play Bingo at a local pub down the road from us on the wharf. We met up this evening and walked over. There were some of the same ladies and a couple of different ladies there tonight. I must admit, I had an absolute blast!

The buzz of the bar/pub, the MC calling out the numbers and joking around, people winning prizes and so on- just a great atmosphere. For a bit of the time we really weren’t even truly playing. I’d catch every 2^nd or 3^rd number called out, but we were just too busy talking and laughing and hanging out. Jen and I even made a little flower out of our bingo chips. LOL

By the end of the night, we all decided that for the last game of the night we would listen and play. The winning prize was a $50 gift certificate at the pub. You had to get 2 lines on one card to win. Guess what? I WON!  I yelled out my Bingo just as 2 other people did. We all went up to the MC and he decided to play a movie trivia game to decide who would win the prize. Guess what? I WON!  I answered 2 questions correctly with the second one being shouted out before the girl I was up against could. The group of ladies I was there with were cheering away and Jen was front and center taking pics and cheering me on. Honestly, it was awesome! I am thankful to be a part of such a fun group of ladies and especially having Jen so close. Great day, great intention, great win!! #HGAL

Day 59 – Dessert First

We all remember the days when we were kids, having our mom or dad say no to a tasty treat before dinner because it may “ruin your appetite”. I really don’t know why this popped in my head today. Being able to break those types of innocent rules is one of the perks of being an adult. And yet, we don’t. Maybe by the time we are grown up and raising kids of our own we no longer care.

I remember back when I was a sophomore in high school our school had a little store in it. They sold snacks and random items. Every morning for months I purchased a package (of 2 large) double fudge chocolate chip cookies, a bag of Cheetos and a Pepsi. I’m not kidding even a little bit. That was my breakfast- Every….Single….Morning. To me, it was heavenly. If my parents ever found that out back then- I’m sure they would have been horrified! Either way, thinking back I shudder with how disgusting that combo truly sounds.

For today’s intention I am going to exercise my grown up rights and I’m eating dessert before dinner. Vinny is coming home with pizza for dinner but won’t be home for a bit. I have a piece of the most delectable carrot cake from a local supermarket that I am completely and utterly obsessed with lately, sitting in my kitchen eyeing me up!! LOL

Today has been an amazing day and I am embracing the fact that (as my friend Lena says) “change is afoot!” The weather is lovely again today, I was able to spend some time at the beach this morning, had tea at my friend’s house mid-morning and there is just so much to be thankful for. I am taking my carrot cake out to my deck, eating it as I watch the sun go down then devouring as much pizza as my appetite will allow when Vinny walks through the door- simply because I can. #breakingtherules #dessertbeforedinner

Tonight's sunset

Best cake EVER!!!!

 

Day 58 – Spring

Although Spring is officially still 10 days away, today I am feeling Spring in the air. It’s a balmy 43 degrees outside today and tomorrow is going to be almost 50! Sounds weird to be excited for the 40’s and 50’s but I literally have been in a tank top all day. Obviously outdoors a sweater is still needed but inside it’s a tank top kind of day- yay!

So, although I wasn’t planning to do this until April 1^st, for my intention today I am bringing out my Spring and Summer clothes. I am trading out many of mine and Vinny’s extreme winter gear, only leaving a minimal few items just in case. This is also the time I go through all of our clothes and shoes and donate any and all items no longer being used as often.

I think it’s so much fun to open each bin that has been carefully tucked away for the last few months, only to reveal some of my favorite Spring and Summer items: the pretty mint greens and lovely corals that were so popular the last couple of seasons. The Aztec, floral, pinstripe and chevron prints I also loved so much. And although not all pieces will make my 2015 Spring/Summer Sarah Collection (lol), I am sure to combine certain key pieces that will be ever so carefully mixed and matched with the additions soon to come from this season. This season I believe I will be incorporating more sun dresses vs. shorts or capris. I love sun dresses- easy, breezy, dainty and fun to accessorize with.

Anyhow, I also enjoyed pulling out my swimsuits, beach towels, flip flops and other summer gear that will be needed soon enough. This may have been a pinch premature but I am just so excited for Spring and Summer to be here!! Beach days, flip flops, bike rides, farmers markets, tons of tourists buzzing around, picnics, concerts, flowers in bloom, baseball games at Fenway, pool parties and cookouts, spending days in Boston and so much more!! With today’s intention I indeed feel one step closer. #Spring/Summer  #thebestisyettocome

 

Day 57 – Laughter

There is true power in laughter. I believe smiling and laughter can positively affect the blues, illness, grieving, fears and more. There have been studies done showing how the power of a good attitude, smiling and laughter have even been proven to actually cure or strongly improve certain mental and physical disorders as well. Thank God I love to laugh- lol.

Last night I had a dream about Heather. The only part of the dream I clearly remember was her running down the street being silly and I was cracking up! Throughout the day today it made me think about how much she made me laugh. She was so funny! From the time we were kids (even well into our adult lives) she used to do this thing where she would very melodramatically pretend like she had tripped and fallen. She would go down so hard and fast, make the noises that usually accompany a fall, arms and legs sprawled everywhere. Anyone in the room would absolutely loose it cracking up!  But together…. together we were hysterical! No matter what was happening in life, she was my glass half full.

For today’s intention I was thinking about a card Heather sent me a very long time ago (she didn’t date it but it was when my oldest son was just a baby). It was a greeting card with a baby gorilla on the front. On the inside of the card she wrote, “I found one of your baby pictures so I put it on the front of this card”. I thought that was so funny when I got it! I still do!! Totally random and completely hysterical.

So with that in mind, I sent a super cute picture of a little monkey to my mom as a joke that said “The first time…you curled your own hair”. It has the silliest little funky hairdo but it made me laugh so I’m passing it on! I know she will get a huge kick outta that. #goodtimes #greatlaughs #HGAL

Front of the card Heather sent me

Inside of the card

Joke I sent to my mom

Heather...always smiling!

 

Day 56 – Sweepstakes

Vinny and I began our day with a nice beach stroll, sun blaring- air brisk. We ran some errands and enjoyed our morning and early afternoon together. Then we went to the supermarket for a little grocery shopping. This particular market just happens to have a Monopoly Sweepstakes game going on. There are quite a few things to win with a grand prize of $1M!!

Now, I have played my fair share of scratch tickets and lottery tickets over the years (here and there). I don’t get crazy with it but I’ve participated at times and even won a few hundred bucks a few times. I haven’t played anytime recently though. Anyhow, the one thing I have never done is play games or sweepstakes at grocery stores or participating retailers….until now. For today’s intention I have decided to throw my hat into the ring.

The cashier at the supermarket gave me a huge stack of playing cards. When we got home and situated- after having a nice big late lunch, Vinny and I ripped the perforated pieces, moistened and affixed the matching game pieces as required. We were kidding around and preemptively spending our million dollar prize! What’s life without a little whimsy right?!?!

I just really think that even the smallest intentions are important in embracing every opportunity life grants us. Who knows…maybe we’ll win big! You don’t know unless you play, right? #HGAL

Day 55 – Simple Hair Dare

Over the years I have tried just about everything with my hair. Blond, red, black, ombre, highlights, low lights. Short, super short, long, bobbed, A line, chic, punk, side braids, bun, teased pony, straight, curly…you name it- I’ve tried it! I recently bumped into a tutorial for how to do a messy chignon. I know it’s pretty much a bun but I thought for today’s intention I would try the look. We are headed out with 3 couples tonight for dinner to a restaurant in Federal Hill in Providence. Maybe I can hone in on a chic look with a natural makeup, side messy chignon and I’m thinking…black pencil skirt, simple top and my favorite little vintage Chanel purse. Oh yes!

Anyhow, per the tutorial- I teased every bit of my hair with my teasing brush. Whoa! I followed each and every step and I do believe I completed the look well. Simple elegance. I’m really starting to embrace that at times. I do appreciate my personal fashion sense and it’s subtle, evolving taste. I love makeup (all things MAC), I’m obsessed with my Chanel lip gloss and I don’t know which is better, a perfect pair of shoes or a perfect fitting pair of jeans (obsession: Miss Me Jeans). When it comes to my thoughts and admiration of accessories and how to properly accessorize – I have strong personal opinions (for myself anyways). I have always loved that fashion- albeit clothes, hair, accessories, makeup or whatnot is a true testimony of one’s self, one’s feelings and one’s current placement on life’s journey for both men and women.

Anyhow, as I get a little older (A LITTLE!!) I’ve come to realize that sometimes, less really is more. Sometimes! lol

Cheers to embracing simple elegance, an intentional simple messy chignon and a great evening out. #HGAL365

 

Starting to get ready...chignon done!

Day 54 - Sunshine and Snow Angels

Let’s face it. We all have those weird, random days where you just wake up feeling….BLAH. Call it being a woman, the cosmos or just plain being a human being. Either way, I woke up that way today. The sun was pouring into our home so incredibly bright when I woke up this morning- which is my absolute favorite way to wake up. It’s almost like the sunshine is a silent promise that things will be bright and wonderful for the day! I was up by 7:00 and had my coffee with Vinny like we always do- which was lovely.

Once he was off to work, I was in some sort of fog. I tried to get up and get motivated but ended up on the couch (so not like me!). Mid-morning, my friend Jen called me and invited me to come exploring with her today. She came by to get me and after a brief stop at Starbucks and a quick errand we went to a spot by the nearby bridge (underneath it). We wandered into the snow to find our way to the water (her paving the way and me following her footsteps). We went through some woods and eventually emerged onto a beach(ish) area just under and next to the main bridge to our town. It was awesome! There were literally icebergs in the water, some broken and small pieces floating by. There were so many things to marvel at. We just walked around, chatting, giggling and enjoying our beautiful, sunny day.

On the way back, looking at all the fresh, untouched snow- I mentioned how much I would love to make a snow angel (what a perfectly fitting intention) but that the snow was probably way too deep. Jen was like “Come on, let’s do it! Who cares if it’s deep?” I am so glad that was her attitude because I REALLY wanted to do it- lol.

So, she volunteered to go first. She turned her back to the untouched area of snow, bent her legs and sprung high into the air landing flush on her back into the soft, deep snow. The entire time while I was snapping pictures I was just cracking up! I didn’t expect her to do it like that! It was so hysterical.

So obviously, when it was my turn- I couldn’t just ease in. Oh no! I bent my legs and jumped backwards as best as I could. The pictures tell the story however. My legs were way up in the air, arms flailing about and when I landed I was covered in snow! I was just laughing and laughing the whole time. I was snowy, cold, disheveled and never better. What the sunshine silently promised me this morning had come true in every way. I had a bright and wonderful day.

Day 53 - Love Stories

As I mentioned before, like my choice of music, my movie choice varies to the extreme. If I had to choose, although it seems a bit contrary to the rest of my personality, I’d have to say action movies are my favorite. I especially love war movies, (Fury, Saving Private Ryan, U-571, etc). I have my favorites of many other genres too including: favorite classic movie- Breakfast at Tiffany’s, Gone With The Wind, action- The Town, Braveheart, The Bourne Series, 80’s classic- The Breakfast Club, favorite musical- Fiddler on the Roof and of course…Disney classic- Beauty and the Beast!

For today’s intention, as we are YET AGAIN snowed in due to a serious amount of snowfall  that began early this morning and fell all day long, Vinny and I are having a Love Story Movie Marathon. My absolute FAVORITE love movies are: Love Actually, The Holiday and Titanic.

We watched our movies only stopping to cook and eat! We drank coffee until 1:00pm then I sipped my new favorite tea: Celestial Seasonings Cinnamon Apple Spice. We ate munchies and snacks in our pjs, snuggled up in blankets on the couch with only my salt lamp lit and the view of the massive amount of snow falling around us. Cheers to heartwarming intentions like this one. #embracinganotherhomeykindaday

Another snowy day!

Day 52 - Pictures

As I’ve looked at all the pictures of the past, it has gotten me to think and marvel at the fact that in such a relatively short period of time, taking pictures is so different. I remember having to load my camera with the film, the wind up, waiting for the flash to be ready and taking the film in when it was all used up to actually get it developed at a store. So taking pictures was a pretty big deal because it was a bit of an inconvenience. Therefore, the pictures from back then are pretty treasured.

I surely love the ease and convenience available now of being able to simply grab my phone and snap a quick pic anytime I want. I never have to miss a moment. In just seconds, I can edit, crop, get rid of red eyes, adjust the picture to black/white or any other number of options. I’m kind of an “old soul” so although at times I have had a hard time embracing all modern technology has to offer, the phone/camera convenience I immediately, completely embraced.

That being said however, I do miss the event of actually going to photography studio session. Heather and I took so many pictures in actual studios! We used to have so much fun creating our own poses, using props and so on. So for today’s intention I have decided to take some fun pics. Vinny was home and already in his “snuggies” (pj’s) but he totally agreed to join me after dinner for my intention. I had seen on Pinterest an idea for Christmas pictures where a couple wrapped themselves up in the lights. I thought it was so adorable. I know Christmas is over but so what. I pulled out the lights that were carefully tucked away. I called my son to come be our camera guy. Then we wrapped all the lights around us and just started posing away. It was so fun!

I am including a couple pictures of our little impromptu photo shoot. I am also including a few professional pictures of Heather over the years. #HGAL

 

Day 51 - National Day

I was listening to the radio while I was getting ready this morning and they announced that today is National Pancake Day. I have heard of so many of these “National Days” in the last few years. Maybe I was out of the loop but I don’t ever recall hearing about National sister’s day, strawberry day, margarita day, cheese day, go barefoot day, etc. when I was growing up. Have they been there all along? I obviously recall regular holidays but not National Dance Like A Chicken Day? Hahaha not kidding that one is May 14^th!

In fact curiosity got the better of me and I decided to research the National Day calendar. You can find it at nationaldaycalendar.com. It’s a crack up. Each day has a few things to celebrate and I enjoyed looking through.

I decided that for today’s intention, I will celebrate this National Day. We are not going to IHOP because I have a feeling that by them giving away free pancakes, it is sure to be a madhouse there which is not something I want to deal with at a restaurant. So, we are having breakfast for dinner, right here at our home- including obviously…pancakes! I put my spin on them like I usually do and added cinnamon and vanilla to the batter to sweeten them up a bit, just the way my family likes them. I even took it just a step further in the spirit of celebration and made them in the shapes of hearts. I love adding “little touches” to simple tasks to just put a smile on my family’s face when I can.

I enjoyed today’s intention, it was fun and yummy. In fact, I will be looking forward to maybe incorporating another National Day or 2 in this year’s blog.

#NationalDayRookie #embracinglifessimplepleasures

Day 50 – Appreciation

This morning I met my friend for a nice walk on a sunny, brisk morning. We ended up stopping for tea, doing a little window shopping and chatted it up with local shop owners. We wandered to the local wharf area and marveled at the site of a large part of the ocean being frozen over! She even took me on a quick tour of her church (the one where the Kennedy’s got married that I talked about on Heathers birthday) and it was GORGEOUS inside! Anyhow, it was a beautiful morning. We ended up hanging out for about 3 hours. When we were saying our goodbye’s, we actually found ourselves thanking one another for the nice walk. I really do appreciate her friendship and company and am so very blessed to have her live so close.

In the spirit of appreciation, for today’s intention I decided to appreciate someone I do not know at all: my mailman. I think about this years cold and snowy winter and the fact that there have been times I haven’t even received my mail until like 6-7:00 at night! I'm lucky to have received it at all most of the time. This poor guy is out there in the rain, snow, wind and sub-zero temperatures and I feel showing my appreciation is the right thing to do.

Recently I bought a bag of my favorite cookies, Milano (Dark Chocolate). These cookies are so amazing! Well, I hadn’t opened them yet. So for today’s intention, I grabbed some pink ribbon and a little tag, tied the ribbon around the package real pretty, wrote a thank you note on the tag and attached it. I placed them in my box so that no matter what it cannot be missed. I hope this small token of appreciation makes my mail man’s day. These fabulous cookies surely always make mine!



Pictures from our walk