Day 323 – Christmas Movies

For today’s intention I decided to say goodbye to November 2015 by getting a jump start on my Christmas Movie watching. Usually it’s December that is packed full of the fun, cheerful and sometimes corny holiday classics. But it was cold outside and in the 30’s when I woke up this morning and when I got home this evening too and you know what??? It’s a perfect evening to snuggle in and watch a movie.

To take it one step further (you know I had too!), I printed out a sheet of paper with a Christmas border. Then I wrote in the center a list of the movies I want to see this holiday season. Most I have seen, but this year I added a few to the list. I asked Vinny for his input and he listed a couple he wants to see as well.

So after dinner, I made some popcorn- we turned off all the lights except all the holiday illumination around the house and watched “White Christmas” with Bing Crosby and Danny Kaye. This is by far one of my favorites! The singing, dancing and lovely story line make for a holiday movie trifecta!! One of my favorite lines is when they say in a song “If you are worried and cannot sleep, just count your blessings instead of sheep and you’ll fall asleep counting your blessings.” (simply beautiful) These old-time movies are my favorite- with their corny but classic misunderstandings all to be worked out so perfectly in the end, all the while with song and dance somewhere in the middle.

I am happy to have kicked off our Christmas movie watching today. November was good to me- Cheers to December being ever more! #HGAL #goodbyeNovemberhelloDecember

Day 322 – Deck the Halls

Today after an amazing family breakfast and Sunday services, my son Micah and I went to do some shopping and put the finishing touches on our projects from day 301 at Clayground. It was such a great afternoon just having some time to hang out a bit, talk and shop. Afterwards Vinny and I decided for my intention to decorate the house for the holidays (deck the halls- lol).

We turned on Christmas music, put on our Santa hats and got to work. In total it was about 4 hours of decorative creations. We had such a great time unpacking the old and some new items and arranging them. Last year I did the house in all turquoise and silver so this year I went with sparkly gold and red. There are a few other pops of color but mostly these.

This is such a fun and festive time of year and this is one of my favorite, cherished days of the year…setting up for the holidays. It’s so different now that the kids are older and aren’t decorating the tree with us and singing and dancing around in their holiday PJs like years of past, but I surely have the memories and enjoy making the new ones we make every year.

Tomorrow I will decorate the boys rooms downstairs and we still have to hang our outside lights but today was a full and wonderful day in every way and everyone is super happy with the outcome. #HGAL #weekendsgotofast

Day 321 – Marble House

After beginning our morning slow and easy with coffee and a nice big family breakfast, we made our way to another mansion. Until the end of the year, all mansion tours are free for Newport residents so I intend to take full advantage. So, for my intention today, I wanted to tour the Marble House. The tour lasted about an hour and was so amazing. Today was rainy but fairly warm considering and every mansion was packed with people. With all the holiday décor and Christmas lights up at all the mansions- it makes them even that much more desirable to see.

After our tour, we wandered the grounds and went out back to the stand alone Chinese Tea House in the back yard. This mansion was very different from the Breakers in that it felt more like “home” inside. Each room had a distinct theme but they were vastly unique from one room to the next. Although each room had stark contrast- in my eyes, somehow it still worked. The rooms went from French Chic directly to Gothic- traditional to posh, etc. The entire inside was very fittingly all marble with grand chandeliers, statues, ceilings, walls and more. Built in 1892, this house was considered at that time to be the number one residence in the United States. Just a few years later, the Breakers was built and the Newport mansion building war was on! Everyone started building mansions and trying to out-do each other. Actually these two mansions were owned by the Vanderbilt brothers, which is just a fun fact. So much to learn and awe about in this grand gilded age and this lovely town I now call home.

It was another amazing tour, very informative and quite interesting and I was happy to have this as my intention today. Afterwards as we were driving and passed the beach, we noticed that there were so many surfers out (at least 30). I asked Vinny to pull over and we walked the beach listening to the large waves crash and it was sprinkling just a bit. Even though, you can simply never go wrong with spending time at the beach! #HappySaturday #HGAL

Day 320 – Holiday Boat Parade & Block Party

For my intention today I went to the Holiday Boat Parade with Vinny this evening just blocks from our home. Last year we just stood on our deck and watched but this year I wanted to be up close and personal. So glad I did because this year there was a block party as well! There were literally thousands of people throughout the town, at the Wharf, docks, piers and more. There was live music to set the scene. All the trees and streets are lit up at this time and you feel instantly in the holiday spirit. We got lucky because the weather was beautiful!! It was 55 degrees and a bit windy but still so nice.

We wandered the area and then found a nice spot on one of the piers to relax and watch the parade. People were in every nook and cranny…every dock, restaurant balcony, pier and bay. The parade was colorful, lively and festive. There were boats illuminated with Christmas trees, Santa’s, reindeer, and more. They were blowing their horns, singing and getting the crowds to sing Christmas songs and even firing the cannons!!

As we stood there I found myself thinking just how much I love it here. They have so many unique festivities and I am glad to take part in so many of them and eagerly look forward to the upcoming events of the season.

After the parade was over, we walked around a bit then made our walk back home as the temperature began to drop. This was a beautiful evening and fun intention for sure!! #Cheers #HGAL  

Day 319 – Thanksgiving Turkey Snack

Happy Happy Happy Thanksgiving!!! Today was an awesome day. The only thing that could have made this day any better is for my oldest son to have been here as well. I’m glad he has so many friends in NC that bring him in for Thanksgiving with their families.

Meanwhile, here we went to our family’s house in Massachusetts as we did last year. Vinny’s brothers wife, Yan- cooks a feast that is amazing every single holiday. She is the most gracious hostess and the food is always perfection. This year she cooked a 36 lb turkey! 36 pounds!! I don’t think I have EVER seen a turkey that big- and it was cooked to perfection.

For my intention, I wanted to bring something that was fun, festive and still yummy. So other than bringing soda and Sangria I decided to make a turkey shaped appetizer with cheese, crackers and salami. Vinny was right there slices cheese and helping any way he could. We were both so excited when we saw it come together just right!! And sure enough when we got to their house- everyone was super excited to see it and it got eaten right away.

Today had everything Thanksgiving was meant to have….Family, friends, food, football and time to reflect on the things that matter most. I am so grateful for my faith, family, friends, good health, true happiness and this blog! I am grateful for all of you who read this blog faithfully and thank you for your continued support. I hope everyone had a fabulous, fun, safe and yummy Thanksgiving Day!! #Cheers #HGAL

 

Day 318 – Thanksgiving Trivia

Today was a very good day! The sun was so bright and glorious and even though the weather peeked at only about 49 degrees, it was wonderful. As the family came together this evening, after dinner we sat down to complete a little Thanksgiving trivia I had printed out for us to do.

Even though it was only 10 questions, we had fun doing it! As I called off the answers at the end, it was fun laughing and talking about why we picked the answers we did. Funny thing is- I notice with my family that if I just give us an activity, everyone always has so much fun. Sometimes the kids will kind of look at me like “ok mom” but they always participate and admit that it is always so much fun.

Anyhow, Vinny and Elijah both got 5 correct answers. Micah and I both got 3 right. But it wasn’t about who won. The point was to come together as a family and hang out for a bit. This was a perfect intention to end a truly good day!

Afterwards, I read aloud all the blessings/gratitude in the box from Day 295. Some were heart warming, others funny, some simple and some complex. But every single one was positive and lovely and this was an intention worth doing over and over again every single year! #Cheers #HGAL

Answers: 1. A, 2. C, 3. C, 4. B, 5. C, 6. B, 7. D, 8. A, 9. D, 10. B

 

Day 317 – Hip Hop Class

There is a really cool place I have been meaning to get to for an intention here. It’s called Bellevue Barre and it’s literally a Ballet inspired studio offering barre workouts. They offer many various classes and I just thought it was the coolest idea for a studio ever! I have been invited to go quite a few times but my schedule has not allowed for it….until today. One of the girls I met recently Amber, invited me to her hip hop class that she was teaching this evening at this studio.

Truth be told….hip hop dancing is not really my forte, so I was a little nervous. But at the same time I was excited to learn something new, hang out with the girls and get a bit of a workout too. I LOVE to dance but have never really been that good at hip hop in particular - so at least I figured I could pick up a few current moves (maybe?!?!) lol.

As soon as I got there, Amber welcomed me in. Instantly I was so glad I was there. The studio was absolutely darling, with high and low wall to wall barre’s and mirrors. She prepped us to learn a choreographed dance. She showed us the moves slow at first, then kicked up the music and we went for it.

Okay, so actually I didn’t do THAT bad. I poked a little fun at myself- joking around with the girls and we were all laughing and having a really great time. This was definitely a great intention and I surely plan to go back to another class for sure. Amber was a fabulous and fun instructor, the studio was amazing and it was nice seeing the girls again. #HGAL #embracenewthings

Day 316 – Mansion Tour

Today is Vinny’s birthday!! We met up for a nice lunch at one of our favorite beachside restaurants. I decided I wanted to take him to one of the mansions for his birthday for a tour. There are so many mansions here that were owned by the Kennedy’s, Vanderbilt’s and so many other prominent members of the “gilded age”. I guess living here, we just get used to driving by these massive mansions every day but Vinny and I had yet to tour one. I went to the Marble House for an event over the summer and have been on the grounds of Rosecliff and others but have not actually gone on a formal tour. It was actually the perfect time to visit because they just completed putting up all of the mansions Christmas decorations just this past weekend.

So today was the perfect day. We decided to tour The Breakers. This was a summer house for the Vanderbilt’s, major railroad tycoons. To even think of this being a home, much less a “summer home” boggles the mind. Just standing in front of it takes your breath away, not to mention the grand entrance, 70 rooms including rooms with platinum walls, massive chandeliers, fireplaces well over 6 feet tall in most rooms, marble, alabaster fixtures, wrought iron, Tiffany’s fixtures, statues, fountains, bathrooms with solid marble tubs, unique furniture pieces – not to mention the detailed art work on the ceilings, walls and so much more.

When we entered the house we were greeted with headphones and remotes. It is a self-guided tour that takes you into each room and offers information about the architecture, history and family background. Every single room offered its own theme and personality. Unfortunately, they requested no pictures to be taken inside the home. However they did take a picture of Vinny and I in front of the massive Christmas tree in the grand foyer but that’s all that was allowed. All in all, we were there about 2 hours that went by so fast.

Afterwards, we wandered around the grounds, checking out the vast ocean views, gardens and such- and just chatted about what we thought life must have been like living in that age. I love Newport but can only imagine how insanely awesome it was then when all of these mansions were being built by all of America’s highest society, all the parties and events- it must have really been something!

This was an awesome experience and Vinny and I both agreed it was a wonderful intention for his birthday. #Cheers #HappyBirthdayVinny #HGAL

Day 315 – Pajama Day

Today was a rainy, cold, wet, grey and nasty kind of day. We had a lazy start to the day and sipped our coffee in our PJ’s on the couch and I enjoyed just bundling up in my fluffy blanket and hanging out with the family. After breakfast, I found myself returning to the couch and everyone was just hanging out together talking and relaxing. A bit later, I snuggled in with my book. I looked at Vinny and declared about half way through the day that I thought for my intention today I would just stay in my PJ’s all day- he agreed and did the same.

Every time it rains and is bitter and cold out, I usually say how much it would be the perfect kind of stay at home in PJ’s all day. But I can’t remember the last time I actually did it. If there was ever a perfect day for it, this was it. It rained all day and all night long. It was windy and I could literally hear the howl of the wind and beating of the rain throughout the day. We all stayed in eating, chatting, reading and for a few hours we had a TV show marathon of a show we are watching on Netflix. After dinner, we sipped on hot chocolate and stayed snuggled in for the most enjoyable ending to a wonderfully, restful, snuggly, family day. #HGAL #pajamaday

Day 314 – Plymouth, Massachusetts

During this festive, Thanksgiving season- I wanted to be sure to make a day trip to Plymouth, Massachusetts. It’s such a fitting place to be this time of year - obviously it is the place that the Mayflower landed and is considered the birthplace of our country. It houses Plymouth Rock as well as a very well preserved Plymouth Plantation, which is a living history museum. We visited there before with the kids and it was educational and fun. We also went on the Mayflower II which is an exact replica of the Mayflower that brought the pilgrims over.

Our original plan today was to go back to those places. Vinny, my mom and I were ready for a tourist kind of day (the boys had plans). However, when we got there- traffic was stopped and being detoured. We went with the flow and parked on a side street. As we walked we saw the thousands of people and realized there was a Thanksgiving parade in full swing! We made our way down just as it was getting over. It really was perfect timing though because they parked all the floats on the main road for a while and let people tour. Santa was there for the kids, the Patriots mascot was there and many people dressed in full garb i.e. Indians, Pilgrims, British Military and so much more!

There was also a huge food festival going on just past the monument where Plymouth Rock is housed. Confetti was everywhere, people smiling and walking about and I just loved every second of wandering around, taking pictures, exploring statues, floats and monuments as well as the Mayflower and more. I just love this beautiful town. The history is unlike anything I’ve ever seen. Although it’s old in years, the buildings, homes and streets are clean and properly maintained.

We all had an amazing time. It was a bit of a blustery and cool day but the sun was out completely which made it a perfect fall day. Now we are off to a night in Providence with friends. #Cheers #touristsfortheday #HGAL

 

 

Day 313 – Seaside Bonfire

Today was such a beautiful day! It was 65 degrees and the sun was shining- which needless to say is unseasonably warm for RI mid-November. I wanted to take advantage of this weather today so Vinny and I had a lovely lunch together outside. The sun shined gloriously on us and at one point I just closed my eyes and tried to put that exact feeling deep into my memory bank because I know winter is coming! I can’t complain though, I love all the seasons I really do. But after the winter we had last year, I know how to appreciate and take full advantage of days just like this.

Anyhow, people everywhere today were in really good moods and it was just an all-around good day. As Vinny and I were driving this evening, I asked him if he wanted to go to the Hyatt on Goat Island and see if they had the fire pit lit. He reminded me that he has never even been to Goat Island. I remembered then that I was by myself when I went on Day 135 to the Lighthouse.

So I knew right then that this was the perfect plan for tonight. I just love this hotel! As the night got cooler, they were offering hot Apple Cider in the lobby and S’mores kits were available for the fire as well. This hotel has a large, impressive bar, a restaurant and spa and so many other grand amenities.

We went through the lobby and out the back, down the stairs and to the long row of Adirondack chairs lined up directly on the water. They lit the fire just for us as there weren’t any other people out there at that time. Although the wind was picking up a bit and the air was definitely chillier than today, I loved it all the same. We sat there admiring the view with the illuminated boat masts, beautiful bridge and just let the warmth of the fire keep us comfy. We took some pictures and chatted away enjoying our beautiful island evening. #HGAL

 

Day 312 – Peppermint Nights

Lately I have seen so many advertisements and displays at the stores all involving peppermint. I have always loved peppermint but I do especially love it this time of year. It’s so festive looking and tasting. Everything from candy, tea, coffee and hot cocoa, ice cream, cookies, candles  and so much more all involving peppermint and I just love it!

So for today’s intention, I decided to create a “peppermint night”, a festive and yummy display for the family. Not only did I bring out the wine bottles and mason jar I painted last year that went perfectly, I also filled a truffle vase with mints and put a Poinsetta plant in the middle for a neat twist on a plant display. I also included peppermint cocoa with marshmallows, brownies with whip cream and crushed peppermint on top, yogurt peppermint pretzels, Lindor peppermint truffles, peppermint Junior Mints, peppermint Andes and of course….mini minty candy canes!!!

I set it up after dinner. We all snacked a bit and enjoyed the tasty treats but surely have plenty left over to last a while. The red and white was such a nice splash of color and makes me want to decorate early for Christmas this year. This was a tasty, cute and fun intention. #HGAL #embracethemint

Day 311 – Coffeehouse Quiet time

About a week ago I was once again invited to join a book club. I have had numerous invitations this year but have never accepted. Well, this time I decided to go for it! I recently got the required book called “The Night Circus” by Erin Morgenstern and I have some time to get it read before we all get together.

For my intention today I decided to head to the local coffeehouse for a little quiet time so I could get going on this reading. Vinny said he would join me which was awesome. After dinner we walked to Starbucks just down the road. This two story Starbucks is set up perfectly for reading, writing or just socializing. It sits adjacent to a beautiful park and has wall to wall windows to take in the view. We actually ran into Elijah and his friends there which was a funny coincidence.

Vinny got his Cappuccino and I got a passion tea. We sat in the large leather, soft, comfy chairs by the front window and I got started on my book (so far so good). After about 30 min or so, our drinks were gone and we were off. We stopped by the park- admired and chatted about the quaint detail put into this beautiful area then walked home. On the walk Vinny said he would like to do this more often- a nice walk after dinner to enjoy a nice hot beverage and some quiet time at the coffee house. I’m definitely on board for that! #HGAL

Day 310 – For Tony

With the winter upon us, the sun goes down about 4:30 which is really taking some getting used to. It makes finding intentions during the weekday just a little tougher. We went to a place called The Secret Garden a couple of towns over that I have passed on the road a few times and wanted to make it my intention today. However they must have shorter winter hours because by 6:00 they were already closed.

So I told Vinny I would just let my intention come to me and allow it to be spontaneous. I don’t want it to become stressful so I try to have fun with just watching for an opportunity to do something I may not normally have done and seize that moment for my intention. Sure enough that opportunity came sooner than I thought when we stopped in a cute little fresh market for something to drink.

As we were wandering around, Vinny gasped and said “Oh wow- Sarah look at this. This was my father’s favorite dessert of all time and I haven’t seen this in years.” Vinny lost his father (Tony) in 2001 and he was very, very close with him. As soon as I saw him standing there- staring through the glass of the freezer section at a Pepperidge Farm Coconut Layer Cake, saying how his mom always kept these in the house for his father- I reached in and grabbed it and said “Well, there it is sweetie. Here’s my intention. Tonight we will have this dessert for Tony!”

Vinny just went on about what a great idea that was and that he thought that was so cool of me. But the actual cool part came after dinner tonight, as I was opening the package I was paying attention to Vinny. His facial expressions said it all. As he took his first bite, I could tell he was in another place. It’s funny how our memories of our loved ones come back in the most random ways. A song, a food, a smell….either way, just for that moment being able to feel close to them again is truly a blessing indeed. I was glad Vinny had that blessing tonight- it was a fitting and lovely intention indeed. #HGAL #fortheloveofTony #bythewayitwasDELISH

Day 309 –Vision Board

Today for my intention, I completed my vision board. It has been a work in progress that I started assembling this weekend but today I completed it. I love the concept of a vision board. I first heard of what it is back in 2006 when I received my copy of The Secret. Of course, Oprah and others have spoken of them as a powerful tool for many years as well.

The concept is that when you are visualizing, you are igniting the law of attraction. Visualization is a powerful exercise. Athletes have been known to improve performance with visualization and there have been studies of those treated with placebo medications/treatment that actually improve in their condition when believing they are being treated with the proper medications/treatment (a.k.a. placebo effect).

Anyhow the key to a successful vision board is to include things that inspire or motivate you. There can be pictures of actual material things that you would like in your life, but the true key is to have pictures, words or items that inspire your dreams and goals. I personally LOVE to dream – I LOVE to be bold in my goals. I have thoughts, ideas and plans that I am constantly working towards. I allow myself to change my goals when I want and keep reminding myself of the awesome saying “Shoot for the moon. Even if you miss, you will land among the stars.”

Truth be told, I think dreaming/goal setting is a huge secret to youth. Daring to dream and following through to the best of your ability helps one to not get completely engulfed in just surviving life or worse yet becoming stagnant. Embracing the fact that life is as exciting as I can create it is always empowering to me. Even this blog has been an amazing endeavor that may not have happened had I not set the goal and followed through. I will keep setting my goals and dreaming always and I am sure this vision board will assist. Either way, it was fun to make and a great intention. #HGAL

Day 308 – Annie

Today for my intention, Vinny and I went to see our friends’ daughter in the lead role of the play Annie. I just LOVE this play! I have a vivid memory of my sister singing “Tomorrow” to Heather to sleep at night when we were kids. My sister has such a beautiful voice and Heather always looked so forward to that. I remember her and I acting out “It’s a hard knock life” and other songs, too.  I also remember my parents taking us to see the play Annie in Chicago when we were kids, which was a real treat. We had the record and I knew every word to every song! (I still know most) Lol

So I was quite excited to have received the invitation a while back to attend today’s performance and obviously quickly agreed. We have never been to this particular theatre and when we pulled up we were instantly impressed with the nostalgic feel of the building, marquee, will call and ticket box. But this was nothing compared to when we stepped inside. No detail was left out. From the beautiful detailed walls and ceilings, carpeting, fireplace, fountains, statues, seating and believe it or not….even the bathrooms with the designated attached room with plush seating, multiple mirrors and area for prep and primp.

We took our seats and enjoyed the show. The kids did such an amazing job. Afterwards we met up with our friends and greeted their daughter with flowers we bought for her as a “congratulations”. This was a great intention and a lovely nostalgic kind of Sunday. #HGAL

Day 307 – Book Day

First of all let me express my sorrow and sadness over what the people in Paris are going through today. Let’s all show our support to the best of our ability and keep them in our prayers.

Today was a slow starting kind of morning. We sat with our coffee, watched CNN for a bit and discussed current affairs. As sad and alarming as they may be- I feel open dialogue with the family is crucial.

We watched a movie after that and at about noontime decided to get up and get going. Vinny asked what I wanted to do for my intention today and I said that I would love to just have a day at the bookstore Barnes and Noble the next town over. I used to go fairly regularly when we lived back in NC- buy a coffee at the Starbucks inside the store and wander around for hours looking at books and I miss that so much.

On our way to the bookstore- as we were passing the beach, although it was windy and fairly cold, I asked Vinny to just pull over for a while so we could enjoy the beach and sun. We didn’t stay for too long but it was so nice to hang out for a bit there. It’s just so very peaceful and calming.  

When we arrived at the book store, we went directly to the Starbucks counter. Then we went to find the book I have been waiting for entitled “Polish Your Poise with Madame Chic” by Jennifer Scott that just recently released. You may remember how excited I was to receive the last book by her on Day 30 entitled “At Home with Madame Chic” that my mom sent me as a gift. I first fell in love with her first book “Lessons from Madame Chic” quite a while ago so I was very excited to purchase and dive into this book as well.

Once I had that, we wandered around for about an hour and a half looking at books of every genre. I was in my total glory and Vinny did good for a while but he did have to kind of pull me out of there when the second hour was approaching lol. I could honestly stay for hours and hours. Anyhow, I had an amazing time and this was a wonderful intention on a slow moving and much needed calm Saturday. #Cheers #HGAL #PLEASEPRAYFORPARIS

 

Day 306 – Puzzlemania

Today for my intention I decided to dedicate my time to my mom and her hobby. She loves puzzles. Me personally….I’m not really a puzzle kinda girl. I’m not opposed to them per se but it just isn’t my go to thing to do. So after having her over for dinner at our house, we walked to her place. I brought the drinks and she made some popcorn. We put a movie on to play in the background and put together her puzzle and chatted the night away. I had a great time with my mom, even though we didn’t quite finish the puzzle. It was just nice quality time.  

The cool part about my intention tonight was the heartfelt appreciation my mom had. She was so thankful and at one point she just told me how much she loved me and thanked me for hanging with her tonight. We see each other quite often but I think it was that she knew I was making it my intention to give her my undivided attention not just invite her along somewhere. Today was truly a good day. Cheers on this Friday the 13^th kinda day. #HGAL

 

Day 305 – Survival Kits

I have been talking to some of my friends the last couple of months about some plans of “giving” this holiday season and beyond. One of the things I wanted to do for one of my intentions was to make survival kits for the homeless. I wanted to have large ziplock baggies filled with supplies like soap, shampoo, deodorant, band aids, tissues, sanitizer, razors, toothbrushes and toothpaste and things like that. Then I wanted to take them to the shelter in Providence and hand them out. I was going to have anyone that wanted to get involved so we could make as many as we could.

Funny how things just fall right into place. Last Sunday at church they made an announcement that the students are making “survival kits” for the homeless. I just looked at Vinny and he looked at me and we just smiled. That is EXACTLY what I was calling them. On the way out they handed out pamphlets with the upcoming activities for the week and the list of what was being collected for these kits was on there.

So I decided I would give supplies to the church and let the kids put them together, it’s good for them to be so involved with such a noble cause. So for my intention today, Vinny and I went to purchase some of the items. I wish I could do so much more. I will be collecting blankets in December for the homeless in Providence and the surrounding cities. So for now I am just extremely honored to be giving to this cause.

Homelessness is a sad, sad state of affairs and anything anyone can do helps so much. These poor people must feel so neglected and forgotten and it just breaks my heart. So I am truly happy and honored to be able to do something to help the cause. #blessed #HGAL

 

Day 304 – Veterans’ Day Celebration

For my intention today I went to a Veterans Day Celebration. In years past, I must admit that although I may have watched Veterans’ stories on TV or seen a parade, I cannot say I have ever gone to an official Ceremonial Celebration. Vinny, Micah and I headed over to support Elijah in his part at this ceremony. He is in the ROTC and they were invited to be a part of this event hosted by the United Veterans Association being referred to so fittingly as “A day to celebrate service before self.”

Since this was a rainy, blustery kind of day they moved it indoors thank goodness. They started things off with introductions, prayer, the pledge of allegiance and invited all attendees to sing the National Anthem. They gave a few speeches, honored many branches of the military and quite a few local attendees – even two gentleman from WWII were able to attend which was awesome. The Mayor gave a speech and a local retired Admiral gave a bit of background on the fact that the Artillery Company of Newport, founded in 1741 is the oldest company in the nation.

Before they wrapped things up, they told the story of the Red Poppy which is the official memorial flower for this day. They actually represent fallen soldiers. A poem written by WWI Colonel John McCrae that was published in 1915 entitled “In Flanders Fields” was referred to as being what began this Poppy movement so I was compelled to look it up and would like to share it with you because it is truly beautiful.

In Flanders fields the poppies blow

Between the crosses, row on row

That mark our place; and in the sky

The larks, still bravely singing, fly.

Scarce heard amid the guns below.

We are the dead. Short days ago
We lived, felt dawn, saw sunset glow
Loved, and were loved, and now we lie
In Flanders fields.

Take up our quarrel with the foe:
To you from failing hands we throw
The torch; be your to hold it high.
If ye break faith with us who die
We shall not sleep, though poppies grow
In Flanders fields.

Anyhow, the story is amazing (I encourage you to look it up) and every year since 1922 they sell these flowers to raise money for the Veterans. So we were happy to purchase one.

I am proud to have been a part of this celebration today. I sent Heathers husband a text thanking him for his service to this country as well. Cheers to all the men and women who have lived and died giving of themselves in service before self. #HappyVeteransDay #HGAL

 

Day 303 – Ping Pong

Today has been a rainy, dreary kind of day. By the time we were all home and having dinner, there was pretty much nothing more I wanted to do than just get in my jammies and snuggle in for an early evening. But its times just like this when I am so grateful for my intentional living and dedication to this blog. I told Vinny that I wanted to go to One Pelham East which is a bar a few blocks down that I have wanted to go to all summer but it was always just way too packed.

Now that the main tourist season is winding down, it’s easier to get into places like that. And being that this is a weekday and it’s raining, I knew we wouldn’t have a problem getting to use the many games offered there. It really is a super cool bar, with 3 levels that offer live music and games including shuffleboard, darts, pool, foosball and ping pong. In our old house in Arizona, we had a ping pong table and a pool table in our home and Vinny and I both LOVE to play both- so I wasn’t sure exactly what we were going to play, I just wanted to get there.

We made the walk down and I didn’t mind walking in the rain with my guy. There were handfuls of people out there braving the elements as well – at least it wasn’t too cold. When we got there, we ordered our drinks and ended up deciding on ping pong. We rallied around for a while and ended up playing two of the most exciting games I think I’ve ever played! We didn’t lose our skills- I can say that for sure lol. On the way out, Vinny challenged me to a game of darts and it was on.

He may have beat me in all the games we played tonight, but I left feeling like a winner regardless. Having a night out playing games with my awesome husband when we could have just as easily been on the couch was a win/win. Cheers to embracing every single opportunity to live your life to the very fullest….EVEN on a rainy day. #HGAL

Day 302 – Evening Stroll

With the sun going down at like 4:00 now, it seems like there is more night than day. I don’t mind it I guess but it’s taking some getting used to for sure. Before the weather starts to get really cold, I asked Vinny if he would join me for an evening stroll for my intention today. I thought it would be neat to see the town from another perspective. Not rushing by on our way out or walking/jogging for exercise- just strolling, simply taking it all in.

Even though I try not to rush around too much, there is something to be said for simply strolling. I definitely don’t stroll too often. So as we walked, we saw the doors open to the International Yacht Restoration School just down the street and stood there for a bit watching some of the people sanding, sawing and working away at building and restoring boats. Then we walked around the “yard” where they store the boats for the winter. The ground was covered in crushed shells (instead of gravel) which is such an authentic touch.

We wandered by an antique dealer and looked through the gate at some large statues, fountains and cool lighting fixtures. We window shopped at a few of the local boutiques, some of which are starting to festively prepare their windows for the upcoming holiday season. We looked at posted menus for a few restaurants we haven’t yet tried and even stumbled upon a seafood restaurant that must have recently opened that we are excited to try.

We went by the coffeehouse, a retro diner that was closed but still illuminated to draw attention and more than one courtyard beautifully lit with unique lighting and even one had a fire going. We passed some windows with flyers advertising upcoming events in the area. We strolled hand in hand simply enjoying the crisp night air and enjoyed seeing our little town from an evening, fall night kind of perspective. #HGAL #lovewalks

Day 301 – Clay Throwing

A little over a month ago I got a Groupon for a store only a few towns over called Clayground. I have seen many different shops that offer painting on pottery, I even took my boys when they were little to participate in this activity. However, this is the first time I have found one of these shops that also offer clay throwing. I have always thought that it looked like a super fun experience so I decided it would be an awesome intention. I made the appointment and today was the day!

I asked Micah if he would like to come with me and he said yes right away. I cannot say enough how awesome it is to have all three of my boys (who are now men) always be so willing to participate in all my projects and whom have always been so extremely supportive in all my endeavors. They are so well-rounded and I am so proud of that!

So…. off we went just he and I- chatting and enjoying the most beautiful sunny day which really was a perfect day for a ride. When we got there, the staff was so friendly and as we were talking Micah shared the fact that he remembered painting on pottery as a child and was happy to be taking part in clay throwing with me. We put on our plastic aprons, rolled up our sleeves and got to it!

The instructor, Carol, was very knowledgeable, accommodating and friendly. She was right there instructing, watching closely and assisting if/when necessary. Micah went first and did an absolutely amazing job on his bowl. I was so happy to see him not only participating but truly having fun with it. Then it was my turn. I decided to make a small vase that I can display flowers in at the house.

Seeing something turn from literally a lump of clay to an actual item was a cool experience. It only took about 15 minutes each. Now they will bake it and we will go back to paint our items at our leisure. On the way out, I thanked Micah for coming along with me and he said he was glad he came and had a great time. We went on to have an awesome afternoon and family evening. A truly lovely Sunday. #HGAL #whydotheycallitclaythrowing #greatweekendbutovertoosoon

Day 300 – Cape Cod Lazy Day

For my intention today Vinny and I went to the Cape with our friends to just enjoy a slow, relaxed, lazy kinda Saturday. The weather was overcast and a little cool but still unseasonably nice for this time of year. The drive down was still so beautiful with all the autumn colors, bridges and cranberry bogs visible right from the highway.

We got to their house and just hung out for a while. They live right on the water and it is absolutely beyond beautiful. With the wall to wall windows looking out onto the water and fireplace going, it was picturesque as we all sat around talking, catching up and enjoying our down time.

We headed over to the Mashpee Commons which is an awesome shopping and recreational area in the afternoon. We stopped for smoothies, did some window shopping and the guys even took part in a little impromptu corn hole. Later this evening we went out to eat at an amazing Mediterranean restaurant which just happened to be on the evening they had live Greek music. The music was festive and set the scene perfectly. The food was top notch, the company was even better and this was just the kind of day that makes you happy to be alive. Afterwards, we all headed over to the movies.

I just love the Cape. It’s so quaint and everything seems to be done just right. It’s a slow kind of beach town area and absolutely ageless. It’s awesome that our friends have their beach house on the Cape and we are always invited and welcome. Cheers to great friends, an awesome weekend, East Coast living and Day 300!!! #HGAL

 

Day 299 – Postcards

Happy Friday! Today was a really good day. I decided to do something nostalgic for my intention today. With all the social media, texting, tweeting and whatnot- I sometimes find myself missing the tangible, good old fashioned letters. I receive them here and there and each time I do, I smile so big and enjoy sitting down to open it, read it and even reread it. So, I thought it would be fun to give some people I care about the same experience. To take it one step further, I decided to send postcards. Although you see postcards still being sold in little towns like mine, does anyone really send them anymore? They are simple but so much fun.

I decided to send four postcards today. I think it will be neat when those receiving them go to get their mail and have something that personal in their box waiting for them. The pictures on the postcards were a perfect representation of my town. They were colorful, bright and happy. I hope they truly brighten the day of the recipients. #Cheers #HGAL

 

Day 298 – National Donut Day

When my friend Tammy told me that it was National Donut Day I knew exactly what my intention would be! Are you kidding me… an excuse to eat a donut?? I’m in!!

To take it one step further, I decided we would have breakfast for dinner tonight with a donut for dessert to finish it off properly- lol. When I went to Dunkin Donuts, I picked out an array of donuts so that everyone could choose. Chocolate glazed, Boston Crème Pie, Strawberry Sprinkles, Vanilla Sprinkles and two Chocolate Chip.

I couldn’t choose so I cut off pieces to a few of them as a “taste test” of sorts. It was a simple and tasty intention.  I hope you all took part in this awesome National Day. #yummy #Cheers #HGAL

Day 297 – For the Kids

For my intention today, I took a donation of fun children’s hats to the Providence Hasbro Children’s Hospital. Tammy, Kim (and her grand-daughter Justice), my mom, me and Vinny and even the boys got in on the donation. My vision was to deliver a bunch of fun hats to the children suffering from Cancer at the hospital. We ended up with hats for boys and girls, of all shapes and sizes and even quite a few fun Disney and animal themed hats. Some of the hats even came with matching mittens to make it all the more fun!

I contacted the hospital and was able to connect with a really lovely lady by the name of Karen who agreed to meet with me this morning to accept our gifts. When Vinny and I arrived, we immediately noticed what a beautiful hospital this was. However, the reality of it all was so surreal. I sat and spoke with Karen for a bit, giving her the background on my blog and listening to some information she had for me. She stated that there was a child who passed away from cancer that created a lovely program before she passed to help the children and their parents celebrate Christmas. Right there in the hospital, they get to browse amongst the gifts donated and/or purchased by the hospital and their parents get to wrap them and/or the children get to choose and more. The children unable to leave their room get things brought to them to pick out and prepare for Christmas. She thought the hats would make excellent gifts for that upcoming event. I told her that we just wanted to do something nice for the kids and however she saw fit to disperse them was up to her good judgement. It was a lovely conversation and I was appreciative to be received so kindly.

As Vinny and I were leaving, we passed a couple who we thought must be a patient’s mom and dad. The only way I can describe it is that they appeared to have the weight of the world on their shoulders. The looks on their face paired with the brisk, focused walk as they came through the rotating door just hit me so hard. To really think about the reality of having a terminal or severely sick child just makes me so sad. I hope somehow, in any way that this small gesture will bring even a moment’s happiness to the struggle they face. I wish there was so much more I could do. The girls and I were talking and hopefully we will be able to make another donation before Christmas….I’m thinking silly slippers!!

I am humbled by this experience. I am grateful for the opportunity to have given to the children. I am happy that Kim’s grand-daughter (only 6 years old) has been given the opportunity to learn about the struggle of other children her age and give to them with a willing and happy heart. I am proud of the fact that my friends and family were able to participate and I look forward to doing this again as soon as possible. #HGAL #HeatherwouldbeSOproud

Day 296 – Message in a Bottle

Who hasn’t always wanted to do this, right??
I found the perfect glass bottle and inside I placed a picture of Heather, a note I wrote on the back that listed my blog web address and that read “I miss you Heather. You are my inspiration. Thank you for a life well lived.” I also printed out two beautiful poems, and included them as well. I wasn’t really sure what I was to write or put in it but what I included felt just right so it must be.

Vinny picked me up and we went to the Beavertail State Park in Jamestown at the recommendation of one of my friends. What a perfect spot! I can’t believe I hadn’t been there yet- it’s relatively close to me. It was just after 4:00pm and the sun was preparing to go down. As we pulled in, I saw a lovely lighthouse at the end of the road. The sky was filled with brilliant colors and I could hear the waves crashing about. There were fisherman, runners and random people here and there but it wasn’t too crowded. It was simply beautiful.

Vinny and I climbed all the way down the rocks on one side to get out to the farthest point that we could. The wind was blowing and the air was briskly cool. I just kept thinking about what Heather would say if she saw me doing this for her. I imagine she would tell me I was so crazy and laugh a bit and shake her head and tell me how much she always loved my imagination.

So, I was going to throw the bottle myself but Vinny thought it would be better if he threw it to make sure it got far enough out to avoid the rocks. He wound up his arm and pitched it so far!! We both just kept our eyes on it. It floated and went right up and over the huge wave! We both were like “It made it, it made it!!” We watched the water quickly carry it away and towards the open sea. We were smiling and laughing and Vinny said how much he truly enjoyed this intention because again this is something we had never done and more than likely never would have. Then as we walked away we discussed the possibilities of where and even if the bottle would ever be found.

Anyhow, I love so much how healing this entire blog has been. I feel genuinely happy to keep Heathers memories fresh and not push them away to avoid the sadness but celebrate her life and allow her memory to continue to be my inspiration every single day. Obviously it is still sad but I rejoice in that the love outweighs the sadness a hundred fold.  I love that I am able to share my memories, pictures and stories about her with so many people. I pause to say thank you for reading my blog and being a part of my journey.

Today was surely an amazing, fun and inspirational intention. #aspecialthankstoTammy #HGAL

 

 

Day 295 – Gratitude Box

For my intention today, after dinner I gathered the family together. I handed out paper and pens and told them that I wanted to start a new project but would need everyone’s participation. From today until Thanksgiving, every night after dinner we are each going to write down one thing we are grateful for or blessed with on that particular day.

I have a cute little wooden box that we will drop them into and on Thanksgiving Day after we eat, we will take out the papers and read them aloud to each other. We all wrote something down on our paper and dropped it in. I think this is such a great intention and will be very excited to read how many ways our family is blessed on this Thanksgiving Day. #Cheers #newtraditions #HGAL

Day 294 – Candy Apples

Hello November and Happy Sunday! Today was such a much needed relaxing kind of day. With the time change, I was happy to begin my day by picking up an extra hour of sleep. When we did wake up, it was raining and gray outside so Vinny and I snuggled in on the couch and enjoyed our nice hot coffee. I love rainy days but I especially love them when I can be inside.  

Other than leaving for church, we stayed in all day. We watched some shows, cooked together and enjoyed a truly lovely day of much needed R & R and family time. I decided to try something new for my intention today. I have never made candy apples. I opted for a bite sized version to make for my first go round with this tasty fall dessert.

My mom had come over for dinner and she helped as well. We chopped apples, and rolled them in the delicious caramel warming on the stove. It was a simple intention but truly delish. I paired them with some festive candy and a large apple and it made for a great way to display the treats for my family. #Cheers #HGAL #HappyNovember