Day 170 – Beach Yoga

Today for my intention, I chose to participate in a class at my local beach…a “Beach Yoga” class. Again, I find myself truly grateful for my blog and embracing the lifestyle of intentional living. This was a fabulous class. The sun on one side and simultaneously the moon on the other, the sights and sound of the waves, the sand, the eventual sunset, the breeze and ocean air, the 16 other friendly ladies participating – I have never been more happy to have shown up for something new.

So, first I went to my gym for a spin class. I worked up a nice cardio sweat, changed clothes, picked up my mom (my camera woman lol) and headed back to the beach. The instructor greeted me immediately and was so inviting and friendly. I knew instantly that this was going to be an amazing experience. She did not disappoint. The moves were easy- fluid and controlled. Her instruction of breathing and importance of keeping your mind clear of static chatter and just relaxing into our current status was perfect. The group seemed to be at many different experience levels but everyone seemed to truly enjoy their time – but how couldn’t they? It’s Beach Yoga!

Afterwards, my mom and I randomly got into a conversation with another mother and daughter. They were absolutely sweet as could be and mentioned that they too would surely be back and thoroughly enjoyed the class as well. As we were talking about the pictures my mom was taking, I explained to them the premise of this blog and shared with them the blog address. Again I find myself blessed to be able to share the memory of my cousin Heather, one of the best people I have ever known. #HGAL  #namaste #anythingonthebeachisamazingbutthiswasbestofall

 

 

 

 

Day 169 – Beach Volleyball

Today as I was driving home from the market, windows down- breeze blowing- sun shining- perfect temperature, as I was passing the beach I realized there were a ton of people there, more so than usual for a Monday. I pulled into the parking lot and realized there was an event going on. There were about 15 or more volleyball nets set up and what appeared to be a tournament or game of some sort going on.

After parking, I walked the beach for a bit. I just love the sights, smells and feel of the ocean air- I simply cannot get used to it. There were so many waves crashing all around and the tide was just starting to come in. With sand on my feet, hair blowing in the wind and smile planted on my face- I had the opportunity to enjoy a short conversation with a random couple passing by. I headed down to the volleyball area. I watched for a bit and reminisced on how much I used to love playing volleyball when I was on the team in school. Maybe this is something I can look into one day soon- a local adult league or team. But for now…. I just allowed myself to enjoy the day, the game, the ocean and my intention. #HGAL

Day 168 – The Docks

We got home from the Cape mid-afternoon today. The weather didn’t cooperate for the beach yesterday but our time ended up even better. It was 4 couples, we ended up staying in, playing an awesome game called Cards Against Humanity (what a BLAST!!!). Anyhow, we ate loads of Chinese takeout, drank, ate cupcakes and just had a great evening.

So, for today’s intention….once we got in today, Vinny wanted to rest up for a busy upcoming week. It’s a bit gray and overcast but not cold at all, just about mid 60’s which is great to me. So I asked my mom if she wanted to go for a walk and see what we could find for an intention. As we walked I asked her if she wanted to go check out the local docks. I have never been over there, but always hear the seagulls screaming and going nuts in the morning when the boats come in with their fresh catch.

As we walked over I saw the sign that said that they sell lobster, crab and more at boat prices. Also, there were picnic tables to one side with a food truck that offered lobster rolls and a ton of other assorted sea food. We passed the “Sara Star” charter boat which obviously we just had to stop and take a picture of. As we walked all the way in the dock area, we saw some really cool things including large anchors, humongous bobbers, large nets, stacks and stacks of lobster and crab traps, barrels and boats and so much more. As we walked away, we came across a small pub that had the neatest artwork along the outside of the building. It was so rustic and completely raw and like a scene from a movie.

I just enjoyed the sights, sounds and smells of the dock. It’s so opposite of everything I grew up around- I am so fond of this New England lifestyle. We had a great walk and a great intention exploring the docks. #HappySundayFunDay #HGAL #yourgonnaneedabiggerboat   

Day 167 - Heading to the Cape

For today’s intention Vinny and I are heading to Cape Cod. Our friends have a beach house down there and invited us to stay the night with them and some other friends.  We intend to lay on the beach all day, enjoy laughs and conversation with a bunch of good people. I am sure we will go out to a nice dinner and simply enjoy the Cape as it should be. I wanted to get my blog entry written before my day began.  #enjoyyourweekend #HGAL  

Day 166 – The Towers

So my intention today was actually to go see live music at the beach with my mom at a beach about 20 minutes away from us in the town of Narragansett. Well, unfortunately we got there just as they were finished (I really thought it was longer). But that’s ok we can go another Friday. So we just walked around the beach area, chatted with a few people and enjoyed the early evening. As we walked around, I mentioned to her that the couple of times Vinny and I have come to this beach, we have never gone to the castle looking building down on the other side of the beach. So, I said “Hey, for my intention – let’s go see what that building is all about.”

As we approached, I saw a sign that said it was called “The Towers”. Unfortunately, it was closed for a private event. But wow was it ever pretty! We walked all around it and noticed that there are also restaurants all in the vicinity. So, we continued to walk the path around the beach- even seeing a guy with a trained cat sitting on the ocean wall. It was such a sight I just had to snap a picture. Lol. Anyhow, the people were super nice and the beach area was pretty busy but definitely not too much.

So, even though I missed out on my initial intention idea, it still was a great evening. We came back and met up with Vinny and have been enjoying this beautiful evening. Narragansett was gorgeous, the towers were cool and it was nice to have some mom and me time. #cherisheverymoment #missingHGALalways

 

Day 165 – Keepsakes

So, I am not the kind of person that saves a whole lot of items for “memory’s sake”- only a select, very special few. However, when it comes to events and outings- I do have a select few stubs and tickets I have kept over all the years. I was looking at some of the ticket stubs I have saved and got such a kick out of some of the places I have been over the years. I thought to myself how awesome it would have been if I had kept all the concert stubs, all the event tickets, plays, shows, etc., even plane ticket stubs to some of my favorite places I’ve traveled to.

Anyhow, when I was looking through these items I noticed that I still had my ticket to New Years Eve 1993 in Tempe, Arizona that I was with Heather and some friends at. I still have the Janet Jackson concert ticket that I was with Heather at as well. I found a picture of us at a Destiny’s Child (and multiple other performers) concert. Heather and I did so much together and had so much fun.

For my intention tonight, I decided to go to a local store and find a really cool way to store, display and continue to collect my favorite event tickets. I got a beautiful glass and blue ombre colored nautical type vase. It can sit independent or hang. I put my tickets inside and it ended up looking super cute. This is such a neat way to remember to keep all the tickets and stubs from now on and add to the collection. Maybe in 10 more years or so I will pull them all out and get a real kick out of the many more places I will have gone by then and think back to this blog day intention. #Cheers #savethememories #HGAL

Heather, me and my niece at Destiny's Child

 

Day 164 – Home Name

Today as I was driving past all the mansions, I noticed again how they all were named. I thought to myself “I would love to have a name for my house”.  Well tonight was actually date night. Vinny wanted to take me out and it was an amazing evening for sure. Our night began at the Red Parrot (our fave!!) followed by a quick stop by Alex and Ani because as we were walking by Vinny offered to get me another addition to my collection. Tonight he picked me out a St. Anthony charm bracelet (his dad was named after St. Anthony). Then we went on a nice long walk, sat in the park for a bit, sat by the pier by the big yachts on some Adirondack chairs and ended up going to another bar for a drink, listening to live music and then to Ben & Jerry’s for some ice cream. We walked down the long pier across the street from our house to sit on the chairs at the dock and eat our ice cream. I just love the city/beach life- it’s such an awesome mix and so very, very convenient!

This was all around a perfect evening. But I digress... As we sat over dinner, I told Vinny that for my intention I wanted to name our home. We talked about so many things that would help create the name…the beach, the bridges, the views, the birds, the sights, the sounds, the downtown atmosphere, the love, the friendships, the vibe…. But we eventually decided on a name:

Lavender Peak.

When we first moved here I bought a small lavender plant at the local farmers market. It has grown and been repotted, and continued to thrive and grow into a small tree sized lavender plant. Being that it survived the insane winter of 2015 and is still thriving we felt like it has earned a place in our home name. It’s like our home mascot. Then to think of the fact that we live up so high- we have a bird’s eye view of everything we figured the word “peak” completed it perfectly.

I am actually so happy with the name we came up with that I think I will go get a plaque or something and attach it to a wreath to proudly display this name on our door. #Cheers #lovedatenight #HGAL #awesomeintentionawesomenight

Day 163 – Home Grown

I ran across something on Pinterest a while back that shows how to grow your own veggies at home the super easy way. I made nachos the other day and bought some green onions. Today I saw the leftovers in my fridge and decided for my intention that today was the day to start with one veggie to see if I can grow it at home. If it goes well…I will try more.

So, I logged onto Pinterest and saw how truly easy it says it is. I grabbed a teacup that I usually use as a treat dish or display. I put water in it, cut the white tips off the onions and placed them inside the cup. I put them outside with the rest of my plants to receive the sunshine promised to our area tomorrow. Once they start to sprout, I will switch them to a glass dish as instructed.

I am so excited to grow my own veggie! I love that I have a green thumb now. Vinny taught me a while back the key to growing things and now my Jasmine, Lavender and so many other plants are thriving and growing and it is quite a rewarding feeling to be quite honest. Fingers crossed with the green onions – if it goes well I look forward to adding many more edible plants to the group! #HGAL



Picture of mine on top and Pinterest directions on bottom
 

Day 162 – Let It Glow

Tonight, after dinner, as Vinny and I sat on the deck enjoying the night air and catching up on our days’ activities I noticed how many things are so beautifully illuminated at night around here. We already had the deck night lights on and our outdoor chandelier candles lit. I looked around and noticed the moon, the bright stars, the sailboat masts’ lit up nice and bright, the large twinkling bridge in the distance and the angelically lit church to the side of us. All these things were lit up so bright and beautiful- I felt compelled to get up and turn on the other items I had available to me in my surrounding area. I turned on our garden roses, my cherry blossom tree just inside and my salt lamp.

I love ambiance. I absolutely love the feeling of this evening. There is a certain sense of calm and serenity when the weather is what it is tonight- 75 degrees and hardly a breath of wind (which is very unusual around here). As I sit here, writing my blog I almost find myself distracted by the many sights I am so fond of. I thank God for each and every day I am blessed with but it nights like tonight I send up a very special “thank you” for giving me the chance to recognize these moments, relax and enjoy such simple but monumental blessings. #LifeIsGood #HGAL

 

 

Day 161 – Scavenger Hunt

For today’s intention I prepared a scavenger hunt for Vinny. After everyone was awake and we all had our coffee I presented Vinny with the first piece of the puzzle. I had 11 clues prepared, each one with a rhyme I had made up, printed and attached to a puzzle piece. Some clues took him to just another clue…others took him to a clue and a surprise gift. As soon as I presented him with the first clue – as he was reading – he just started laughing and looked up to me and said “This is so cool, you are so creative.” The clues took him all around the house inside, in and out of many different rooms up and downstairs and even outside. When it came to the last one, he said “No, I don’t want it to end.” We all just laughed. As he went to collect his final gift, he was given it by Elijah dancing around and joking with him.

The main gift was a picture frame that had the three kids each of whom held a sign. In age order they each held a sign with a single word on it that spelled out: Best Dad Ever. It was extra special to Vinny since the older two are not physically here for this Father’s Day. Anyhow, after Vinny’s Father’s Day breakfast feast we all spent the day together as a family. Vinny later mentioned to me that the scavenger hunt was one of the the nicest things anyone has ever surprised him with and that he really appreciated it and had a truly wonderful day. And that to me just made this day perfect! #HGAL

 

 

Day 160 – Strawberry Festival and more….

Today was packed full- busy but absolutely wonderful! Vinny had to work for a bit so my mom and I went out to run errands and hang out around town and decided to meet up with Vinny a bit later. It was overcast and in the low 70’s, breezy and beautiful. We ended up going to the beach, having a lobster roll and enjoying the view and hanging out for a bit.

We went to the local Strawberry Festival that had live music, many local vendors selling their arts, crafts, aromatherapy products and food. We walked around- purchased some stuff and just hung out talking and relaxing. Then on the walk home we stopped to literally smell the roses that were abundant and so very, very fragrant.

Afterwards, I had to drop Elijah off to the movies with his buddies so I took that time to take my mom to the “Ocean Drive” and show her the multitudes of local mansions, boats and views. We went to the state park at the end of the drive where people were flying kites, walking the jetty and playing sports.

We also stopped at a café I have been eyeing since I moved here but just have never gone into. It is called The French Connection. We took some pics, talked to the girl about my blog for a bit then ordered some “mini” French macaroons, fruit tarts and crème puffs for us and the family. The girl that worked there talked about a blog she wrote once and how she quit cause it was so hard to maintain. I told her how proud I was of my blog and how much it meant to me to do this in memory of my cousin and how it has also has expanded my knowledge of the island and surrounding areas.

This was a fabulous Saturday. We are home now…ordered some pizza, are enjoying some cocktails and ready to watch a movie. #Cheers #HGAL

 

 

Day 159 – Making Soap

Today my mom and I went to a local company down the road from me called The Newport Sea Foam Trading Company to make soap. I just love this store. The quaint atmosphere, soothing music, friendly service and inviting aromas are so amazing. From the moment you walk in this store, you can walk to the left to the room where you make homemade soap or to the right to go to the main store with all of the soaps, scrubs, candles, body sprays and so on. I have purchased products here before but never made my own soap. So today was the day…

I chose the Cherry Almond scent with the lighthouse soap mold, which represents Newport in a certain way to me. The employee heated up the wax, I chose and added the scent and the color (glittery pink but of course). After I poured it in the mold and paid, we took some pics after talking to the girl that worked there for a few minutes and headed out to enjoy the rest of our day.  

This was truly a great day. This intention was a unique and fun experience. Cheers to the weekend ahead!! #HGAL #HappyFriday

Day 158 – Birthday Dress

Today was my birthday and it really was quite amazing! Waking up to a bunch of birthday wishes, texts, phone calls and social media messages was so awesome. I had friends sing me happy birthday first thing this morning, some of the nicest messages and phone calls from my kids that a mom could ever ask for and my hubby had flowers delivered. Then, when I got home later this afternoon, I was met just inside the door with my son and two of his friends serenading me. It was the neatest thing. While my son played the ukulele, his first friend sang Happy Birthday in Spanish, then his other friend sang it in French, then he sang it in English. Then together they sang it in all the languages. It was the sweetest, most unique thing I have ever seen. He and his buddies all chipped in to buy me a large bouquet of flowers and a cake. I was so touched and completely surprised, it just melted my heart.

Then, my husband took me out for a romantic dinner and drinks ocean side at a beautiful restaurant that I haven’t yet been to called: The Mooring. For my intention, I pulled out a dress that I have had for well over a year but never worn. I literally pulled the tags off of it tonight. I decided that although it felt too dressy for this small beach town, tonight was the night. And the night was perfectly amazing. I was lucky enough to welcome in the last year of my 30’s with the best guy I know. I enjoyed amazing conversation, laughs, drinks and food. I thought about how blessed I am to welcome in another year of life. On our walk home we stopped at Ben & Jerry’s for ice cream and came home to sit on the deck to enjoy each others company and the night air while I write this blog. #lifeisgood #HGAL

 

Day 157 – The Seabees

History: After the attack at Pearl Harbor, an Admiral was given the go ahead of establishing Naval Construction Battalions at a base located in Davisville, RI. It eventually contained 500 Quonset huts for personnel, some of which are still standing (see pic below). Other bases were thereafter constructed. These men and women of the Navy were responsible for building airstrips, bridges, roads, gasoline storage tanks and Quonset huts for warehouses, hospitals and housing. They often had to take part in fighting as they tried to construct these buildings. They are actually still active today (NMCB) and even have underwater construction teams and are truly an important part of our armed forces.

Today, I was in the nearby town of North Kingstown and I stopped to pick up lunch from a market deli. I drove away and was looking for a place to sit and eat my lunch in my car. I pulled into a parking lot and started to unwrap my lunch (ham and sweet potato Panini-yummy!).  Anyhow, I looked up and saw in the distance a strange statue that looked like a giant bee. Curious and thinking this could quite possibly be a blog intention- after my lunch was done I just had to go see what that was.

I pulled up and saw the large sign that read “Welcome Home of Seabees Museum & Memorial Park – The place where it all started”.  Well, I had no idea what a Seabee was and what exactly was “started” here but I intended to find out. It clearly had something to do with the military so of course I was intrigued. So I proceeded to wander around, checking out the statues, buildings, equipment, plaques and even a Chapel In The Pines. This Memorial Park was so beautiful! The day was gorgeous – there was a slight breeze causing the extremely tall pine trees I was surrounded by to sway and rustle. Crazy thing is, the nearby base must have been running air drills or something cause there were military planes flying overhead at the very time I was wandering around- making it all seem so much more real. I meandered through the area, reading some informative and historical facts about what I was seeing and learned quite a bit.

This intention today is the epitome of this blog: Learning to embrace all moments that present themselves in our lives daily – however unplanned – to just live, learn, love and laugh. I know Heather would be so happy and proud of this life lesson I have learned and wholeheartedly embrace in her memory. #livingeverymoment #HGAL #seizingopportunity

 

 

Day 156 – Fudge It Is!

So….Did you know that today is National Fudge Day? I don’t know why I’m intrigued with the National Days this country has but its crackin me up and I’m having fun participating. Anyhow, with today being the day of fudge and me just happening to live just down the road from more than one fudge shop- what else is there to do but “when in Rome”????

My mom and I spent time at the beach today. It was still a bit overcast but the sun played peekaboo and the air was moist and fairly warm. We walked up and down talking and just hanging out. Afterwards, we went to the fudge shop then walked down a pier nearby to hang out and take in other sites. As we looked down we saw a few small crabs running about in the shallow part of the water. I love nature in it’s raw, uninterrupted state.

Anyhow, after dinner everyone got to eat fudge for dessert since I got a sampler pack with 6 different flavors and I even got some for a friend of mine who had a bit of a rough day today. So- Happy Fudge Day readers- I hope you find enjoyment in embracing one of the upcoming National Days it’s really quite fun!! #HGAL

Day 155 – Momma-N-Me

My mom is here! After picking her up from the airport, we went and did some errands. When we got home, Elijah was here with his friend and Vinny got here shortly thereafter. Vinny and I cooked a huge meal (a feast really lol). We all ate a super yummy dinner and after went out to the deck and just enjoyed some cocktails and catch up time. I decided for my intention today I would just relax with my mom and enjoy her company. And that is exactly what we did. We kicked our feet up and just hung out – outside, deck lights on, a little rainy and foggy but still beautiful and enjoyable.

I told her so much about the island and what there is to do around here and some plans we have in store for her. I look forward to our upcoming summer plans and am just thankful and happy to have my mom in my life. I thought so much about Heathers daughter today and sent her a text to let her know she was on my mind and that I am always here for her. I can’t imagine what life as a girl without your mom would be like. I am resolved to be an important part of her life now and always and hope we only get closer as the years progress. #HGAL

Day 154 – Pawtucket Red Sox

I got 12 tickets to the Pawtucket Red Sox game for today so that my family, some friends and I could all go together for my intention. What an awesome day! The weather was perfection, the seats were great and the entire group was happy to be together…eating, drinking and enjoying each other and the game.

I am not really a huge baseball fan but I love going to baseball games- I love the entire scene, the experience. We have been to parks around the country including Wrigley, Safeco Field, Bank One Ballpark and Fenway as well as other minor league fields. Although this was minor league- it was every bit as fun. It was an amazing way to get out with family and friends and was just a solid great time. We made some plans for a future date which I am looking forward to as well.

On the way home, Vinny and I stopped at Home Depot – picked up some supplies and came home to pot an enormous Jasmine plant, and re-pot some of our growing collection. We added deck lights and an outdoor chandelier and as we sat there and took in the sunset, we just took time to appreciate the beauty we are surrounded by. Happy Sunday!!#HGAL #familyfriendsandbaseball  

Day 153 – Happy Saturday

Days like today are why people look forward to the weekends. After a lovely breakfast, I took Elijah and his buddies to set up their party they were having for a friend that’s moving away. I went to check my booth to see what items have sold and it looked almost empty - so much has sold – yay! Vin had to run to work for just a quick appointment – so I took myself to Bristol, RI to a British Motorcar Festival. I drove around Bristol for a while, taking in the ocean air and some of the most quaint and beautiful sites. The shops, the parks, the bridges, the water views and hundreds of boats, the people and the decorative touches made this quite possibly one of the prettiest towns I have seen yet- (wish I could’ve taken pics but I was driving).The festival was in full swing, with British cars everywhere and on display for all to see and enjoy.

After that, I met Vinny back at the house and we went towards Providence to run a couple of errands. After those were done, we were trying to decide on what to get for a late lunch. We drove by an Olive Garden and I said “Hey, Olive Garden….we haven’t eaten there in forever. That was Heather’s favorite restaurant- we could go there for an intention.” Vinny thought that was a great idea too. When we ordered our drinks we did a “cheers” to Heather. Vinny noticed a really neat question on his coaster for his drink about family that we discussed for a while.  I ordered something I had never had before and so did Vinny in honor of the blog and trying new things and were both extremely happy with our choices.

We went next to catch the new Jurassic World movie. The theatre was packed full, the crowd was rowdy (in a good way) and at the end everyone clapped and cheered. On the way home as we talked about our day today and plans tomorrow, I thought about how wonderful life truly is and I just put my head back and smiled. #cheers #happysaturday #HGAL

 

Day 152 – Oysters with Friends

So….today was a busy but GREAT day!! Tonight we had plans with our friends to go to the local Navy Officers Club with Jen and Carlos. Well, by the time Vinny got home from work it was a little too late for that so we changed our plans and headed to a local restaurant on the ocean just down the road. Jen and Carlos are such a great couple. Between the four of us there is never a quiet moment, which I just love- everything just flows so naturally. We sat outside on the ocean front and watched an early evening fog roll in which for some reason was really super cool to me.

Earlier when we realized we had to change plans, Jen had suggested this place that Vinny and I had never been to because she said they had great oysters and she thought it would be great for my intention. She knew I had never actually eaten them. Elijah loves oysters and I bought some the other day at the farmers market for him, but just couldn’t bring myself to eat them. Anyhow, when we got there they ordered a dozen and Jen and I had a conversation about embracing life and trying new things and she said she turned away from trying them for a long time too but decided to give them a go and loved them. When I tried them I absolutely was shocked to realize that I LOVED them as well!!! I ate a few- in addition to my lobster roll and was so excited to have found another new food love. LOL

Anyhow, we talked about the blog and how much it has impacted me and actually her as well which was a great feeling. We all picked up our glasses and raised our cups. The four of us toasted to Heather – we toasted to our lives here in Newport that I feel so blessed for our paths to be crossing over yet again. So this was a great evening – great intention – great friends and I look forward to another amazing weekend ahead. #HGAL #newexperiences

Day 151 - Cliff Walk

Today I asked Elijah to join me on a scenic walk at a famous tourist attraction located right here in my town called the Cliff Walk for my intention. This 3 ½ mile walk goes along a paved path where on one side it’s a cliff that overlooks the ocean and the other side walks along a total of 64 private properties, many of which are famous mansions that are also available to tour.

This is the most beautiful walk and I just love the many flowers, trees, and nature’s unintentional cutout photo ops and some added props - some of which include stairs that lead you very close to the water, large misshapen trees that double as some sort of resting area, offering you a seat on their massive curved trunks, benches, a brick archway, large beautiful gates and columns, etc. Anyhow, it is an extremely peaceful walk even though many times it is quite busy with tourists. Last summer I often walked from my house, walked the Cliff Walk and walked home for a great afternoon workout. But today, this was a last minute idea and was the perfect way to spend my intention.

We were actually on our way to pick up something to eat and head home. As I was driving I thought how perfect the weather was for a cliff walk. Whereas normally I would have probably just continued on with my previous plans, this blog and my intentional living made me stop- make the last minute suggestion to Elijah- and take an extended, absolutely beautiful afternoon stroll with my son. I chatted with a lovely couple for a bit as we watched Elijah climb down onto the rocks for added adventure. I love meeting and talking to people, mingling about and just enjoying life’s bonuses.

Today’s intention was beautiful and refreshing. I hope you find a way to stop for a moment today and take in life’s beauty and let it refresh you as well. #livewhileyoucan #refresh #livewithintention #HGAL

 

 

Day 150 – Farmers Market

For today’s intention, Elijah and I went to our local farmers market. It is truly one of the best I’ve been to. They have live entertainment, fresh food cooking and ice cream for immediate enjoyment. Not to mention the abundance of fresh items for sale ranging from seafood, eggs, baked goods, produce, cheeses, flowers and plants, aromatherapy products and more!! We just took our time and wandered through each and every booth, sampling products and chatting about. Elijah got a piece of wood fired pizza to munch on as we wandered.

We ended up buying some oysters, produce, French pastry, a couple of sweets that we have never tried before and some amazing ginger cheese. The weather was perfect- it was in a shaded area and the ocean breeze was roaming through. It was a great afternoon and an awesome intention. #cheers #HGAL

 

Day 149 – Son Time

Today was so, so busy. It was a great day but just incredibly jam packed. But I did find time to carve out gym time which was very nice. Anyhow, I found myself sitting down after dinner and saying “Ok, intention time.” Just then I realized that Vinny and I were in the living room and Elijah was in his room. I assumed he was playing video games and I figured for my intention I would go and join him. I am most definitely NOT a video game person but the kids and I had so much fun on Mother’s Day playing video games together for a portion of the day, that I figured I would give it another try.

I went into his room and he was actually just watching a movie. I asked him, “Hey hon, wanna play a video game with me?” He sprung up, smiling and was shocked but instantly said yes. I told him whatever he wanted to play was fine with me. So we played Tekken Tag Team Tournament.

I love hanging out with my kiddos- they are just so fun to be around. Elijah taught me a bunch of stuff and I had fun playing for a while. The best part was just spending time with him and having fun- and really…..isn’t that the joy of life??? Family, Friends, Food and Fun- Embrace it now and every day-- #HGAL #LiveLaughLove #kiddotime

 

Day 148 – Poetic Photo

Heather’s husband sent me a family photo with the kids and grandkids they all just took. I was so happy to have received it. They all look so amazing. Not only are they a beautiful family indeed but they look genuinely happy. It is so refreshing to know that they are able to find happiness when and where they can. I can only imagine that this was not completely easy as I think this may be the first family photo since Heather passed. I am proud of them for making this happen and finding a way to smile through it and take comfort in the love of each other.

I love how the dad is in the middle with the family surrounding him - that just looks so loving to me. For today’s intention I decided to write a poem about what I see. It’s not long. I just wanted to write in a different way about this photo. I hope you enjoy it…

With beautiful smiles they stand together

A family united, though still missing Heather

Through this storm - they have stayed so strong

Although some nights may still seem long

Right in the middle the dad beams with pride

With his loving family, surrounding every side

Arms all around and hands held tight

This family is still so full of life

When you see this photo- you can just feel the love

And imagine the smile, shining above.

 

#HGALalways #familybond #lovethispicturesomuch

 

 

 

 

 

Day 147 – True New Englander

Happy Sunday!! After a nice big family breakfast and some morning chores we all made our plans for the day. Elijah was off to meet some friends and Vinny and I decided to just bum around the beach for the day. It’s so amazing being able to get there in a matter of moments- our beach chairs and a couple of beach supplies remain in the trunk at all times at this point. There are so many beaches around to explore but for now the one by our house is just my go to beach, it’s picturesque and simply beautiful.

So today for my intention, we decided to try the lobster rolls at the beach since they were voted #1 on the island. We have our favorite spot to get lobster rolls and don’t venture away from that place at all. But today, for the blog- we are giving another place a try. The special is for 2 lobster rolls and fries for $12.97 which seemed like a lot of food for very inexpensive (considering it is lobster we’re talking about) but we went in for just that. We each had our lobster rolls and fries and may I say – we now have a new favorite place for lobster rolls! They were so delish!!! So much lobster meat and perfectly fresh! I brought along some elephant ears I got yesterday from the fudge shop while I was strolling around with Jen so by the time we made it to our chairs and got comfy…dessert was served.

After a few hours on the beach we headed home. The weather is picture perfect…sunny and 70’s with a very slight breeze. People are everywhere and I just so enjoy the sights and sounds of my little town. Beach time, seafood, sweets and fun - today I felt like a true New Englander and it was glorious. #HGAL #embraceeverysingledayoflife #beachbum

Day 146 – Chowder Fest

The Annual Chowder Fest is here today in Newport. I have never had clam chowder- ever. It just didn’t look appetizing to me so I never tried it. I decided however for my intention that today was the day to give it a go. Elijah is off sailing for the day with his friends’ family. Vinny had to work today for a bit. So I was to meet up with Jen and Carlos at the festival at Fort Adams. There were way more people than we had anticipated. By the time I got there and was in line to buy tickets, they were holding the line up for a while cause they said too many people were there and the lines for chowder, drinks etc were unbearably long. So we decided to leave.

On the way out as I was talking to Jen and Carlos- I decided that since I was already resolved to try chowder, I wanted to keep that as my intention. So we dropped Carlos off and Jen and I decided to go. I googled the best place in Newport for chowder and a bunch of reviews came up for The Black Pearl, which I’ve never been too. So that’s where we were headed. I just parked back at my house and we walked, it was only a few blocks away. It’s a beautiful day and as usual on these glorious weekends, there are thousands of people out and about. So, I had my first go at clam chowder and afterwards we split a piece of chocolate pecan pie with ice cream….yum! Loved the chowder- loved the pie! I love that I stretched out to try something new cause something that never really appealed to me turned out to be really quite good.

So afterwards, Jen and I walked the town- went to a couple of different spots on the harbor, walked along a pier and stood at the ocean chatting for a bit. We walked through a building where they are building a large ship – which was quite a sight (seeing the bones of a huge ship). We mosied through some shops and just enjoyed our day. She and Carlos have plans tonight as do Vinny and I so we had to go to get ready for our evenings. We made some plans for a future date and that was that. What a magnificent day- and I am looking forward to an amazing night as well!! #HGAL

 

Day 145 – Sparkling Night

Today, one of my friends as we said goodbye told me to “Have a sparkling weekend”.  I smiled so big and realized what an awesome way that was to say it. I surely plan to have a great weekend indeed but I thought for an intention tonight I would kick things off exactly as they were wished for me…..sparkling!

We literally just bought fireworks the other day for the upcoming going away party for Elijah’s buddy and I thought that was a great way to bring on my “sparkling” weekend. Vinny and I grabbed some sparklers and went outside and lit them up. I don’t know what it is about sparkles but they just make me smile. Vinny and I were laughing and kidding around as people walked by us on this fairly busy Friday night in our town.  And with that….my sparkling weekend begins! #CHEERS #HGAL #happyFriday

Day 144 – Fun Gift

Today as I was running Elijah around to gather supplies for a surprise going away party he is throwing for his friend – I ran into the coolest t-shirt. It says “Trophy Husband”. Normally, I would have giggled and probably walked by but today I saw it and said – there it is….my intention. I bought the shirt for Vinny. He isn’t home yet but I’m sure he will love it when I give it to him later. Obviously, it’s meant to be a funny kind of shirt but I do feel like a true winner to be Vinny’s wife and  truly blessed to have him in my life these last 12 years- so to me it’s true.

It’s cool too since just recently he bought me a shirt that said “Wifey” that I absolutely loved! At some point this weekend I’m going to suggest we take pictures together with these shirts on- that would make for a cute, fun couples pic. Anyhow, good intention – good day. #cheers #lovinthehubby #HGAL

Day 143 – Run Run Run

Did you know that today is National Runners Day? I was out and about earlier and stopped at the beach after running some errands. I was thinking about what I was to do for my intention today. As I sat there  I was scrolling through my phone and saw it. Running is not my work out of choice. I have family and friends who running is a huge part of their life and they just love it. But it’s not for me. I have gone jogging before but I honestly just got bored. I’m more of a group exercise class kinda girl – you know Zumba, Spin, Kickboxing, Yoga or whatever.

But in the spirit of the day and for my intention I decided to take off my flip flops and run for a bit on the beach. I wasn’t dressed for running per se but I didn’t mind a bit. It was windy and kinda cool out. I did a fast jog/run with my flip flops in my hand. I loved feeling the soft sand underneath my feet. Listening to the ocean waves, wind blowing through my hair – I found myself smiling so big as I ran down the beach- it was really quite fun. I don’t think this will transform me into some sort of runner now, but I’d be willing to maybe take up running a couple of times a month on the beach for sure. #HGAL #embracelifewhileyoucan #feetinthesandwindinmyhair

 

Day 142 – Practice Makes Perfect

Elijah has another event coming up in school tomorrow. He is involved in a group project presentation on Global Warming. Since he does an absolute uncanny, spot on imitation of the President – they have him dressing up and presenting their information to the class as if he was the President giving a speech. Everything about his imitation is perfect, the voice- the gestures- he even slightly resembles him which is hysterical. He actually had the privilege to meet the President a few years back when he made an appearance at his school in NC and Elijah was one of a group selected to meet and greet the President and shake his hand.

Anyhow, for today’s intention I reminded Elijah of the old adage…. “Practice Makes Perfect” and invited him to practice with me while I was ironing his outfit for the presentation and getting everything together. Vinny and I have always encouraged our boys to give all activities, hobbies, goals and projects large or small 100% and take pride in everything they do and I must admit he should be quite proud of his performance tomorrow because he did an amazing job during practice.

I am reminded of a saying that has always been one of my favorites:
“Shoot for the moon – even if you miss you’ll land amongst the stars”

Set a goal and go for it. Take on a project and complete it. Take pride in all things you produce. Never be afraid to try. And always remember that practice really does make perfect. #HGAL #liveyourlife

Day 141 - Dancing in the Rain

So, today was not my favorite day. Not the worlds worse day but surely not my favorite either. That’s ok- I kept my head up and made it through just fine. I kept reminding myself that how a person handles an off day builds and displays their character. I smiled as much as possible and by the time Vinny and I were in the kitchen making dinner together early this evening, music playing in the background, talking about our day and enjoying each others company- everything was perfect. When we called Elijah for dinner, as we were making our plates we all ended up dancing around for a few and just laughed at ourselves being silly. Bruno Mars “Uptown Funk” was playing and that is an easy song to just smile and dance away.

It was raining outside, I could hear the rain bouncing off the skylights and at that moment it hit me. I wanted to embrace this moment – this moment of happiness with my family – for my intention… I wanted to just dance in the rain. I went out to the deck (yes it is covered) but the rain was coming in just a bit sideways and I just went in. I was dancing around, ocean and city in view – it was cool outside but I did not mind one bit. I was in a great mood and just enjoyed it! It’s moments like this that need to be savored in our lives…. Family….Food….and Dancing in the Rain!! #HGAL