Day 140 – Breather

Due to the weather today we had to cancel the plans I had made for today’s intention so I will have to do it another time.  After picking up Elijah from the airport, stopping for lunch and catching up on his week at Disneyworld with his dad and family, we ran some errands and then just came home. I was trying to figure out all that needed to be done around the house and whatnot as I usually do. I was thinking of what project I could begin or what exactly I could fill our day with. I seem to always be going, going, going- which is usually how I prefer it.

But today, at the suggestion of my husband - as I was trying to figure out exactly what to do for my intention- I decided to take his advice and just take a breather. We watched a couple of movies and I even fell asleep for probably 30 minutes or so which for me is unheard of- I don’t do naps. Anyhow, can I just say that I am so glad to have taken Vinny’s advice for this day’s intention.

I feel so refreshed and relaxed and feel like days like today should be absolutely mandatory- kind of a soul refresher lol. Today made me appreciate how lucky I am to be married to my best friend. I am thankful to have the best kids a mom could ever wish for and am just sincerely thankful for this day’s breather. #HGAL #soulrefresh

Day 139 – Air Show

Rhode Island has been all a buzz about the Annual Quonset Air Show. It’s only a 30 min drive from our home and I told Vinny I most definitely wanted to go for today’s intention. Initially between traffic and whatnot it took about 2 hours to get all the way into the grounds but our spirits were high and Vinny and I just had fun hanging out and chatting with people around us. OMG it was SO worth the wait!!

The planes, the tricks, the show, the food, the drinks, the people, the sun and breeze from the ocean made the day perfection. We ate sausages with peppers and fried dough and walked amongst the thousands and thousands of people to see the planes on display and all the activities and items for sale. We brought our beach chairs, found a spot and sat for a while to just take in the show. At one point I did need my ear plugs when the F16 broke the sound barrier. The Blue Angels were there to perform and there were teams from USA, France and Canada and what a show they put on!! There was even a WWII plane doing tricks that absolutely made my heart skip a beat – these guys are so brave and I appreciated every single second of our viewing experience.

After we left, we went out for a bite to eat then went to see the new movie: San Andreas. What a heart pumping, action filled, great movie! When we came back to the house, Lena was outside with a friend of hers and I hung out for a bit which was nice. Nestled in at the house now with Vinny, sliders open- air breezing in- embracing some much needed R & R, this is the perfect way to end a tip top day with another fun filled intention on a beautiful weekend day!! #lifeisgoodLIVEIT  #HGAL 

Day 138 – Movies and Mudslides

With a pretty big weekend planned, Vinny and I decided to have a relaxed evening at home tonight. For my intention today I decided to get the supplies for Vinny’s drink specialty that he makes- Mudslides. He doesn’t make them with ice cream, only Vanilla Stoli, Baileys, Kalhua, ice and chocolate sauce. It is truly delectable. We don’t have them very often so every time we do they are such a treat. 

We ordered take out, and after spending some time out on the deck enjoying the beautiful sunset and catching up on our day decided to settle in for a movie. So there it is…. Movies and Mudslides with my amazing hubby-- and to me, that spells an A+ night for sure. Cheers and Happy Friday!! #HGAL

Day 137 – When I see you again…

As I was riding in my car today a song came on the radio that instantly choked me up. It was “See you again” from the Furious 7 soundtrack. After we saw that movie and it played at the end, I purchased it and added it to my playlist. Obviously it was written in memory of Paul Walker but it totally makes me think of Heather.

Although I try to only think of all the numerous great memories of Heather, clearly I have my sad days too. The reality is overwhelming at times. Today for my intention, I simply allowed myself to give in a bit to the sadness. I turned it up loud in the car and just sang along. When I got home, I put it on repeat and listened to it for a while.

And then my thoughts shifted….just as the chorus says:

“It’s been a long day – without you my friend

And I’ll tell you all about it when I see you again
We’ve come a long way – from where we began
Oh I’ll tell you all about it when I see you again”

I will see her again! I choose to focus on that. I will be able to tell her everything that’s happened - the blog, the kids, my adventures and how much of an inspiration her courage is to me.

Although I am eager to see her again, I remain patient as I am also excited to live a long, happy life as well – embracing every opportunity life offers me and taking charge of every single day to live with intention.  Once again I am reminded that our thoughts make us what we are and shape each and every day. I am happy to have changed my sad energy to one of appreciation, inspiration and joy to know that one day I will see her again. #HGAL #missmycousinmyfriend

Day 136 – Fearless Fashion

Although Heather and my styles were different in a lot of ways when we were younger, we both had no fear when it came to our fashion sense. Whether it was clothes, makeup, hair styles… we showcased our individuality as we saw fit. I came across a picture of us when I was staying at her house in Chicago one summer. I remember us buying the shirts we had on at the mall and I must have talked her into it cause this wasn’t really her style but she rocked it big time! We were always up to try something new. They were florally, sheer crop tops. We both wore them with white shorts. I got a giggle when I saw this picture thinking about how much fun we had that summer. My son was about 6 months old and we would get all dressed up to take him in the stroller on walks.

Anyhow, later today I was headed to the beach after a quick stop at the local farmers market – which btw I ran into the cutest little Tricycle Ice Cream man, so I just HAD to stop- lol. Anyhow, before I got out of my car at the beach I noticed a headband that I have been wanting to wear but for some reason just haven’t had the courage- which is so not like me! I had it on one day and when I got from my house to my car I took it off and put it in the middle compartment. I felt like maybe I was just beyond the years of a woman that should be wearing this “hippie-ish” style headband.

Well, in the spirit of Heather and I and our many years of daring to be ourselves and not caring one bit what anyone thought of it, I put the headband on. I stepped out of my car to walk the beach and refused to care what anyone thought. I love this headband – it channels the small piece of “inner hippie” I have in me- I guess it’s really more of a bohemian flare as opposed to hippie.  My style is quite varied depending on circumstance but this is perfect for the beach. I proudly wore it, took some pics and enjoyed my time at the beach. #HGAL #fortheloveoffashion

 

Day 135 – The Lighthouse

I just found out that I live just a little over a mile away from an accessible lighthouse on the nearby Goat Island. There is a small bridge that leads to this island just down the road from me. I have lived here almost a year now and have never gone there - no particular reason why, I just haven’t. I needed something to do for my intention today and as I was out and about I was thinking of what in my area I could do or explore as a neat intention.

I drove across the bridge that had about 15-20 fisherman on it. I went over and parked at the Hyatt Regancy and talked to a gentleman who directed me on how to access the lighthouse. It was only a couple hours away from sundown, the breeze had picked up and the air was slightly cool but completely comfortable.  As I walked around the paved path, I noticed a long row of Adirondack chairs inviting me in to sit at the shore and take in the most breathtaking view- and so I did just that. As I sat there I noticed a faint smell of gas- as I looked around I realized I was right by a fire pit that was lit and beautiful. The large bridge leading to my island was in the distance, the boats were everywhere in the bay and the water was choppy enough to be heard but not quite rough.

As I walked on, there it was- a beautiful lighthouse! It wasn’t as big as some of the other lighthouses I have been to but Goat Island is quite small and quaint so that was totally understandable. I took some pictures and then stood there just taking in my surroundings. I found myself with a large smile on my face and actually felt compelled to call my husband and say how happy I was to be doing this today. We decided that we will surely come back soon to take in a sunset together with the fire going, sitting in the chairs and visiting the adjoining bar for an ocean side cocktail and I am surely looking forward to that. I called my mom as well and shared with her that when she comes to visit I have another wonderful place to show her.

As I left I was smiling ear to ear and grateful deep in my heart and soul to be so blessed to have had this journey today. #lifeisgood #missingHGAL   

 

Day 134 – Holiday Yum-Yum

Happy Memorial Day! After a nice relaxed morning spent with my family, we briefly watched a special on the History Channel with some war hero stories that were both inspirational and sad. I saw on Facebook today a post that had a picture of Arlington Cemetery that read “All gave some, some gave all”. What a powerful statement. Heather’s husband and step son are in the military and I bet she surely would have celebrated today with BBQ, desserts, family and friends. We were not raised with a military family background but I surely respect and thoroughly appreciate the sacrifices made to keep our country safe.

Here we had a bit of a quiet day….running errands, cooking, eating and hanging out. Elijah went out with his buddies for a bit but before he did I asked him to come with me to participate in my intention. Just down the road and around the corner from me, there is a seasonal shop that has recently opened. I passed it earlier and it was jammed with people. They serve gelato, ice cream and waffles on a stick! I thought that was such a cute idea for a dessert and I just had to try it. They came with many different options but Elijah chose powdered sugar and cinnamon and I chose chocolate with sprinkles.

OMG they were sooo good!! I had a chance to speak with the owner for a bit and she was just lovely. I told her I was taking pictures to place on my blog. She asked what kind of blog I had and when I explained it to her she said she was so impressed with such a positive and inspirational idea for a blog. I told her that it is a life changing concept and I appreciated her positive feedback. Once again I am proud to be able to share Heathers’ memory even with perfect strangers and hope they are inspired to live their lives with intention and positivity while they can. #HGAL

Day 133 – Beaches and Books

Beaches and books- definitely a dynamic duo! I mean honestly, those two things just go so magically together. The beach: the sun, the sand, the breeze, the water, the snacks, the drinks, the people, the atmosphere. And books: the imagination, the journey, the time out, the storyline drama, the feel of the pages, the smell of the paper.

So today for my intention- after a late breakfast, Vinny and I headed to the beach. Needless to say it was packed! There were people everywhere. The gigantic indoor carousel was operational, the on-site aquarium was bursting with people as well as the snack bars which out here are every bit as good as restaurants with their lobster rolls and various other sea food items.  

Vinny and I sat and just let the sun work it’s magic, chatting it up and enjoying each others company. It was pretty breezy out which at times was even a bit cool. But that didn’t stop anyone- there were people in the water (not many), kids running and playing, couples walking hand in hand, people having their beachside picnics and more.

In regular beach fashion, I began my first official summer read. The book is titled Sparkles and to be quite honest the name and sparkly front cover is what grabbed my attention. But I’m so happy that it is proving to be an awesome read as well. From the first chapter I was hooked and I just love books that pull me in like that! Today proved to be an amazing day for sure. It’s funny because Heather’s husband sent me a picture today with the kids at the beach too- so clearly this is a happy, beach day for many. #livelovelaugh #beachdaysareinfullswing #HGAL

 

Day 132 – WaterFire Providence

Today was the first lighting of the WaterFire in Providence and I wanted to be a part of the celebration for my intention. We have never gone to it but I have heard that it is a beautiful sight. All along the river that runs through the beautiful city are many wood burning fires perched right on the water lit precisely at sunset and runs through a good portion of the night. They are lit throughout several summer weekends but I wanted to be there for the first lighting.

So, Vinny, Elijah and I made our way down to Providence. We walked around the city a bit, mingling amongst thousands of people. There were gondolas slowing drifting through with couples inside (so Venice like), adding a sense of romance to the night. There was a live band and the most beautiful Italian opera music playing loudly overhead. The smell of burning wood was both aromatic and inviting and we could literally feel the warmth from the flames.

I found myself snuggled into Vinny as we leaned against a railing taking it all in. Vendors were selling bouquets of flowers and glow in the dark trinkets. Illuminated blue stars perched above the street lights added another elegant touch. While we were there, I thanked Elijah and Vinny for being a part of another intention and we talked for a moment about how much this blog has affected our lives in such a lovely way. Today was a beautiful day spent out and about with my family and this evening’s intention was an outstanding addition for sure. #HGAL           

Day 131 – Going Bananas

Today was good and busy but it's Friday and tonight is date night! Elijah is out with friends at the movies and Vinny and I went out for dinner, drinks and dessert. We headed over to our favorite restaurant where the people know us, the food is always amazing and the drinks are simply perfection.

Over our dinner conversation, I told Vinny that I still needed to do something for my blog tonight. So for dessert tonight we decided to go bananas- we opted for a delicious banana treat for my intention. It was some sort of fried dough shell with ice cream, warm bananas with cinnamon and a mound of whip cream on top. The entire treat was sitting atop a thick layer of caramel sauce that was to die for!!

After walking home (which by the way is awesome to live a few blocks away from our favorite spot), we are now going to snuggle in for movie time. I am excited for my long weekend ahead and kicking it off with a date night with my hubby is the best way I can think to begin it all perfectly. #HGAL #cheerstodatenight #happyMemorialDayweekend

Day 130 – Alex and Ani

Alex and Ani is a very large RI based jewelry company. I had heard of it and admired the jewelry prior to moving here but hadn’t yet purchased any pieces. We just happen to live down the road from a store. It is so extremely popular here. Everywhere you look people have an arm full of these amazing bracelets.

The beauty behind this jewelry line is that it is infused with positivity as well as many pieces have a portion of the proceeds going to charity. The service in the store is A+. They explain each piece in detail explaining who created the piece, which charity will benefit and what the piece represents. It also comes with a card explaining the same.

For today’s intention I wanted to begin my bracelet collection with a piece that represented me at this juncture of my life in regards to the blog and Heather. I had a couple I went back and forth between and I had my friend Lena there with me and she encouraged me to just pick the one I felt the strongest feelings toward. I was considering getting both but decided that I needed just one at this time to truly represent my intentional living in honor of Heathers blessed life on this earth.

When I think of Heather and I – I think of only happiness. When I think of this blog, I think of intentional positive living. And in the spirit of those things I chose the “Positive” charm bracelet. It represents Inspiration, Happiness and Enthusiasm and says the word Positive on it in many different languages. On the back of the explanation card it reads:

“Positivity is contagious. Share your kind energy with others to start a movement of optimism. Greet each day with an open heart because every situation is enhanced with enthusiasm. Overcome any obstacle with upbeat persistence and create your own positive life.”

Well….I must say, I don’t see a more appropriate representation of what I am trying to accomplish. Although I have always lived my life with the “glass half full” mentality and “live life to the fullest” behavior- I am embracing each day as an opportunity to add a daily intention in my life. I hope this does indeed start a movement of optimism where each and every reader of this blog feels inspired and moved enough to begin to incorporate this way of living in his/her life. I hope each and every reader sees that they are blessed with the gift of life and lives it to the very fullest with positivity and happiness. #HGALwouldbesoproud

 

 

Day 129 – Buddha Belly

For my intention today Elijah and I went over to eat from the Buddha Belly Food Truck. I heard about it recently and it’s been online and in local advertisements. Apparently it travels all over Rhode Island and is a pretty big deal. The menu was short and simple so we went with the crepes, wings and soup. It was actually really, really good. I have eaten from food trucks before but not in a long time. But I have never, ever sought one out!

As we pulled up, I noticed it was pretty packed and they actually had two lines formed. The setting was beautiful – it was in front of a local hotel only a few miles away from my house. The trees were in full bloom and there were an abundance of beautiful tulips standing long and proud. I am so happy we did this for my intention today.

I embraced the opportunity to experience something different just because I can and once again it was a fabulous outing! The food was delish and unique and Elijah and I had fun enjoying this silly experience. #allbecauseofyouHGAL #whynottrysomethingnew #justbecauseIcan

 

 

Day 128 – Sunshine Smoothies

For my intention today I decided to begin making smoothies for breakfast. I purchased my vanilla whey protein and various berries and fruits. I already had the almond milk and some green veggies. I researched smoothie recipes on Pinterest and printed a handful to try.

I have never been into making smoothies at home so this will be new territory for me. But I’ve decided for myself and my family to begin our days healthier. Personally, I recognize the fact that I cannot keep eating like I’m 18. My body may not show it yet but I do not want to wait until it does either.

I snack when I want and eat pretty much what I want but I need to begin incorporating intentional healthy eating into my life to honor my health, my age and my future. I look forward to trying new recipes and getting really good at throwing together smoothies every morning for myself and my family. Cheers to healthy and yummy AM smoothies!! #thinksmarteatsmart #blenditup #HGAL

 

Day 127 – Reconnection

Sometimes as life gets busy, it’s so easy to lose days or even weeks and on occasion months with friends. I have learned my life lesson with letting too much time go by without reconnecting with friends. So when my friend Jen asked me to get together today, I carved out the time in my schedule early this evening to meet up. We filled each other in on the activity of our lives in the last couple of weeks. We sat together in a beautiful café/coffee house, sipping our tea and chatting away.

I love this particular spot. It must have been a bank in prior years because it has an authentic humongous vault with the old style safe front. Then in such vast contrast, everywhere you look there are enormous chandeliers hanging- illuminating the entire area. There is a chess board in one nook and bistro style wooden chairs/table sets everywhere. It has true charm and the wall to wall large windows add the ability to view the heart of Newport while you relax.

Anyhow, as we walked back to my house afterwards I found myself thinking how blessed I am to have an awesome local friend. I appreciate having someone that I have known so many years from Arizona living so close to me and offering the familiarity and friendship that every girl needs. I found myself thinking of how lucky I am to have realized that making time for friends even when life is busy is so very, very important. And then I ultimately thought of the fact that once again I have this blog to thank for making me intentionally slowing it down for some much appreciated girl time and reconnection. #HGAL

 

Day 126 – Closing Festivities

The International Volvo Race is now complete. All contestants have made their way here to the island and it has been an event packed 12 days. We have watched from across the bay all of the activity with the entire thing. When I am on my deck I have been able to hear in the distance the concert music and see all of the lights and activity. Well, this morning I declared to Vinny “It’s the last day and all of the closing festivities are happening just down the road and I want to go for my intention for the blog.”

An hour later….we were there. It was a perfectly glorious day- high 70’s, bright and sunny, the Seagulls blaring as they flew by and the harbor was absolutely jam packed with boats. We got there and watched the parade go by (you know, I LOVE parades!!). We watched demo’s of driverless cars, an Asian synchronized fighting/dance display, we walked around and took in so many festivities everywhere the eye could see.  After we left we went out for a nice meal together to a restaurant we have never been too. Then Vin had to run to work for just a bit and I went to manage my booth for the week.

I came back and picked up Elijah and he and I went to the beach. There were people everywhere and I just love a packed beach! It’s fun to sunbathe and frolic in the water but it’s just as fun to just relax in my beach chair soaking in the sun- taking in all the happy vibes that come from a packed beach. The bright sun, ocean air, multitudes talking and laughing and happy commotion just makes me smile.

Afterwards, we came back and I cooked an amazing meal for an early dinner. And now Vinny and I are sitting on the deck, watching the sun set (Margarita in hand) and taking in the air as it cools and comforts. The sky is a brilliant pink and there are bluish/purple clouds billowing about. Today was a good day. #HGAL

 

Day 125 – Curtain Time!

Today was another prep day intention for me. It was all about my youngest son Elijah today. He was cast as the lead in the high school play. They have been practicing relentlessly for 5 months. He has never done anything like this and to be lead is so amazing. The pride of a parent is an indescribable feeling. As I watched him in all the scenes perfectly executing his lines my smile was ear to ear and heart was full.

Elijah reserved seats in the first row for us which was a great little surprise, too. Vinny’s daughter and the kids came out to see the play which absolutely amazing. We all came back to the house for food and to hang out afterwards. Today was a great day and tonight was perfect! Happy Saturday #HGAL

Day 124 – Dance While You Can

Today as I was tidying up around the house I was listening to music, as I usually do while I’m cleaning. I was kinda bobbin my head and singing quietly. I was thinking about how much I love, love, love to sing. I just don’t feel like my blessing was the pipes- that went to my sister. Vinny and the kids always tell me I sing amazing but I think they may be biased. Anyways, I was thinking of the blog and how it’s getting me to do things intentionally each day that I normally wouldn’t and I said to myself “Go ahead, why not? No one’s here…belt it out!” And that is exactly what I did.

I sang out loud - as loud as I could, I danced around…cleaning up and standing by my deck slider looking around at all the people outside walking by, the boats, the water, the action! Have I mentioned how much the frigid winter makes you embrace and fall in love with the nice weather and beauty of the spring/summer???  From an Arizona girl, that’s an appreciation you don’t understand until you experience it.

So anyhow, at my house I have a book called “Dance while you can.” I initially bought it as a cute decoration for a stack of books with flowers on it. But it has some of the neatest sayings inside and one of my favorites is:

“I will not stand to the side

And allow the music in my heart
To fade away and die
I will dance to my own life song. “

That’s it! That’s me! I have always lived my life with courage, strength, love and adventure- truly dancing to the beat of my own heart…and with that I allowed myself to dance around and sing out loud and embrace the life I’ve been blessed with today. #HGAL #HappyFriday #dancewhileyoucan

The book cover and page inside... LOVE IT!!

Day 123 – Boats

After a very productive and full day, I stopped at the beach to enjoy the weather for a while. I listened to the sounds of the ocean, let the sun shine down on me and walked along the sandy beach. Afterwards, I was actually headed home for the rest of the day. As I came down the road, I noticed all the boats in the harbor. They were all gone for the winter and it seems like suddenly there are so many now.

So after I got home, I dropped off my items, put on a jacket and went right back out to go enjoy the scene of all the boats. I walked around embracing the cool breeze and beginning of the sunset. I took some pics and thought back on all the times I’ve been boating. I even called my sister and we chatted about when we went years ago with the family.

When we lived in NC, we lived right on the lake- the Marina was next to us so I’m used to seeing boats but there is a distinct difference between lake boats and ocean boats. From my house I see yachts, sail boats, tall boats, fishing boats, speed boats, water taxi’s, cruise ships and even at times oil liners. I just love the variety and love the character it brings to my view.

Thinking about it though, other than the cruises Vinny and I have taken or the ferry to Martha’s Vineyard and Catalina Island in Cali, I have never been boating on an ocean (like a day of boating). Any day boating I’ve done have been in lakes. So, I have added that to my list of things to look into to do this summer- ocean boating!

This was a great intention for my day and once again I am grateful for this blog for making me stop to embrace a part of my day I may not have otherwise. #HGAL

Day 122 – Hello Beautiful

After a bizarre and fairly tense morning followed by a busy and hectic afternoon – I was in desperate need of a little “retail therapy” later in my day. Other than the mall...I just love stores like TJ Maxx, Marshalls, Homegoods and sometimes Ross. They offer such a wide variety of items and it’s nice to just kind of meander through looking at a little of this and a little of that- clothes, jewelry, shoes, perfume, purses and a multitude of household items, etc.

So, I found myself wandering around just enjoying my time. I stumbled on a shirt that got me thinking so I just had to get it for my intention today. I got a few other items but this was the buy of the day for sure. It is the cutest little tank top that simply states “Hello Beautiful”. Although it may be intended to be directed at the person wearing it, or people walking past the person wearing it- I looked at it from a different angle. I see it as an exclamation and declaration to this beautiful world. Hello beautiful!  Beautiful ocean, beautiful flowers, beautiful mountains, beautiful trees, beautiful clouds, beautiful sunrise and sunset. No matter where you live, there is something beautiful this world offers. My hope is that anyone reading this stops for a moment and thinks of the beauty that surrounds them and simply smiles in appreciation.

I see each and every day as valuable and precious. When I wear this shirt, this will be what I am representing. I see it as a nod to the beauty surrounding me and my true appreciation of my blessed life! #missingHGAL

Day 121 – Eating Out

I love eating out- it’s true. Although there is nothing better than a home cooked meal, I love the vibe and atmosphere of the busy bustling restaurant, the buzz of conversation and laughter in the air, the drinks, appetizers, food and dessert. Have I mentioned before that Heathers favorite restaurant was the Olive Garden? I want to go there for an intention one day but there isn’t one for many miles around me so I will have to do that in a future intention.

So tonight, we went to our favorite summer hang out here- The Red Parrot. It’s 3 levels of simply lovely. We take friends, family and ourselves there quite often in the summer months so clearly we haven’t been there in quite a while and it’s a great way to embrace the good weather and impending summer. As we sat there tonight I talked about my blog for a bit and discussed some ideas for future blog posts. I am trying to keep this as spontaneous as possible but it doesn’t hurt to have some “go to” ideas of things to do.

Although this is obviously in memory of my dear cousin Heather, this is a personal challenge to find a new thing every single day to do with intention, which sometimes isn’t as easy as it may seem. It is a challenge I am happy to embrace and look forward to the many days ahead this summer and beyond. #HGAL

Day 120 – Country Roll

The other night at Micah’s fight, at one point a quick but pretty severe storm moved in. We were away from our VIP seat so we all got pretty wet. I quick grabbed Micah’s best friend’s hat (totally like my extended son) and said I had to use it to protect my hair and makeup which of course he didn’t mind at all. Well, I ended up leaving with it still on my head.

I was looking at that hat today trying to remind myself to make sure I give it back to him before my trip is over. I smiled at the country swag of the hat with its orange and camo colors and wording that boasts:  “Shootin Deer & Drinking Beer- That’s How I Roll”. It’s so opposite of me and my ultra girly-girly ways it made me just chuckle.

So I thought that it would make a great intention for my day to wear this hat and get my “country roll” on. Lol. Actually after my makeup was done and I was all dressed, I put it on and totally loved it. I am happy to get my country girl on for the day. #ILOVENC #HGAL

Day 119 – Mother’s Day Perfection

This was an amazing Mother’s Day!

Brunch with my bestie, her kiddos and mom started my day off amazing. Then the rest of the day was spent with 3 of the best kids in the world – my boys. We hung out all day talking and laughing and just enjoying each other and our day together. They took me out to lunch which was awesome and delish. Then to my surprise, my sons best friend (practically another son to me) came to wish me a Happy Mothers Day in person which really touched my heart. Heathers husband sent me Happy Mothers Day wishes and that also just filled my heart with joy.

Then we went back to the house to hang out. We played Wii Mario Cart together for a while which I have never played and it was so much fun. Afterwards we had an amazing dinner together. Just spending our day together with so much laughter and happiness was so wonderful. I am beaming with pride and truly grateful for my amazing, bright, talented, intelligent and caring children. My intention was to make this the best Mothers Day yet and may I say….Mission Accomplished!!

#HappyMothersDaytomyreaders #HGALforever

 

Day 118 – Prep: Fight Night

Well, today is the big event! My son Micah is in a MMA fight scheduled for tonight. He has been a MMA fighter since he was 4 years old. I started him in karate initially and he instantly loved it and he progressed very rapidly. He mastered Tae Kwon Do, Brazillian Jiu Jitsu and more. He has never given up on his dream of fighting in the UFC. This fight in particular advances him one step closer to living his dream.

I am so excited – I can hardly stand it! Obviously as a mom I am a bit nervous but I know he is capable, prepared and ready for this opportunity. I am so very proud of him- his dedication and commitment, his talent and his courage.

For my intention today, it was all about the prep. I was up a little after 6am… getting myself together. After going out for coffee, I made it to the spa for hair and nails. Everyone there was so happy to see me – hugs all around and catching up. I went there for so many years and so often- it was like my home away from home lol. It felt good to be so well received.

After, Brian and I went out for lunch and dessert than hung out a bit. After Micah’s weigh in this afternoon he came over with a couple other fighters in his club. We hung out a bit and I did everything I could to pump him up and positively reinforce his mental strength. I had him visualize his win and his future in the UFC. I reminded him of his true greatness and just did all I could do to pump him up. Tonight we have a VIP table reserved to be front and center for all of the action.

Pics will follow but I’m writing this now because I’m sure I won’t be back to my computer by midnight. So, here’s to a lovely intention on a proud, exciting and pivotal day!! #HGAL

Day 117 – No Place Like Home

Yes. It’s true there’s NO PLACE LIKE HOME. RI is beautiful and living on the ocean has its perks. But coming home to my boys and bestie is the best feeling in the world. We flew in this afternoon and it’s been a whirlwind. My hubby and my boys are my life and to have all three of my boys at my side is going to make this the best Mother’s Day ever!!

My intention today was to give thanks. When we were landing in NC I was all smiles and I found myself eyes closed for a moment just giving thanks for being home. I am thankful for safe travels. I am thankful for the hugs, kisses and love from my sons. I am thankful for the abundance of laughter my bestie and I had when we were in the car and out to eat. I am thankful for seeing Elijah with a group of his buddies at a bonfire and watching them celebrate his return. I am thankful for the familiarity and feeling of “home sweet home” flowing through me now.

So now, I’m off. I’m off to enjoy my family and friends. I want to pause to give thanks to those that faithfully read this blog. I want to also express my gratitude for the supportive emails and feedback I receive so often from you all. Thank you!

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Day 116 – Extending a Hand

In the midst of a hectic day, Elijah and I attended the wake of his friends’ mother. There were multiple rooms of many people there, friends and family of the mom who passed all too soon. The father was in a side room surrounded by many people. The kids (three girls ages 12, 15 and 16) who lost their mother were surrounded by kids of all ages- friends from school and whatnot. I found myself talking for a bit to one of the mothers who was quite choked up about the situation. She told me she recently lost her father and this was tough for her.

After she left, I found myself looking at the screens above with a slideshow of the years of memories in pictures of this woman and her family. I stood there saddened for a few moments that she will miss out on so much of her daughters’ lives as they grow into women. I was sad for the daughters that will be growing up without their mother. Then, I found myself thinking of Heather. Thinking of her children and husband.

Then a wave of appreciation came over me. I found myself feeling blessed to be able to have had my mother with me all these years. I felt blessed that I have been able to see my boys growing into men.

I went over to Elijah’s friend and gave her a big hug. I introduced myself to her sisters and told them that if they ever needed anything to please just call us. Then I told Elijah and his friend that I would be happy to cook them dinner or whatever I can do to assist them as they grieve. I didn’t really know what more to say than that. What I do know is that I sincerely hope they take me up on my offer because extending a hand is really all I can do. #HGAL

Day 115 – Twinkle Twinkle

So, with the good weather here now- we are definitely spending more time outside on our decks enjoy the ocean air and the view. Just across the harbor we have been watching the construction of the Volvo Village they are making at Fort Adams for the International Volvo Ocean Race. Apparently it’s a really big deal around here. It is all lit up and looks really exciting. As we were out on the deck tonight I was looking all around... the bridge all lit up in the distance, the Volvo Village brightly shimmering ahead and a beautiful church steeple that is brilliantly illuminated every night on the side of us.

As I was taking this all in, I paused to simply look up in the night’s sky and admire the many stars. I thought back to when we were kids and used to say the nursery rhyme “Twinkle Twinkle little star, how I wonder where you are. Up above the clouds so high, like a diamond in the sky”. I love that rhyme- it’s beautiful. Between the night diamonds in the sky and the daytime sunlit diamonds on the water, I just love what I am surrounded by. Beauty. (insert deep breath)

I found myself saying a little wish on one of the stars hovering above. It’s refreshing to find that somewhere inside of me, there is still a little girl who believes in the power of a wish.   #HGAL

Day 114 – Cinco de Mayo

I think back to my AZ days and realize how completely different this holiday is on this side (East Coast) of the country. Obviously, with AZ being just next door to Mexico it is a major celebration and most years I went out for Mexican food, Margaritas and sometimes dancing. I don’t have specific memories of Cinco de Mayo with Heather but I am sure we took part in the festivities together. The entire time she was out there with me we did so much, always having such a blast.

Well, tonight my husband surprised me with flowers and made me dinner- (he is so sweet like that). We didn’t have Mexican food -we aren’t going out dancing either. So… what’s left to celebrate this holiday for my intention?? MARGARITAS (naturally) lol!

Instead of making the same ‘ol hum drum Margaritas using mix and whatever, we went for a nice twist. I pulled up Pinterest and found an amazing cocktail recipe for Pomegranate Margaritas. (yummy) There is no sour mix, just tequila (and of course I got Patron)- limeade- POM and a lime wedge. After dinner was over and Elijah was home from practice, we mixed it all up and poured ourselves a drink. One word… Delish! Happy Cinco de Mayo #HGAL

 

 

 

 

Day 113 – Nighttime Ocean

Tonight when I went to pick up Elijah from practice, I asked him if he minded if we went to the beach for a bit for my intention. The weather was so nice and I haven’t been to the beach at night in quite a while. Right when we were pulling up we noticed the moon was large and extremely orange. It was so beautiful.

Elijah thought it might be a blood moon. I looked it up online and it isn’t calling for one tonight but it looked exactly like that. We could see all kinds of detail on the moon – dark spots, various shades of orange and red as well as a bright halo. It was reflecting off the water as well -which further magnified its brilliance. We each started snapping pictures. But none of the pictures we took came close to capturing what our bare eyes were seeing. (Pictures below do it NO justice!) So I told him- whatever… let’s just sit here and enjoy it for a bit. It was high tide and the waves were swishing against the shore.  The air was moist, cool and refreshing.

We sat there and just talked a bit. Elijah’s friend just lost her mother to cancer and he is pretty shaken up about it. He knew her mom pretty well from the time he spent at her house and he said she was a super nice lady. The wake is later this week and he is trying to mentally prepare for what comes with that. We spoke a bit about the stages of grief and I encouraged him to allow himself to feel and speak about his feelings whenever he needed to. I reminded him that where there is life, there is death and it is sad and so very unfortunate but the pain his friend is going through must be almost unbearable and that we must be here for her first and foremost.

That is such a true lesson in life- grieving and dealing with our pain but making sure we are there for each other to support and uplift one another in our times of need. For this intention today, I am thankful for the beautiful setting that my son and I were able to take solace in while speaking of such a sad and sensitive subject. #missingHGALtodayandalways

Day 112 – Unwind the mind

We spent our day in Massachusetts with family for Anthony’s (our grandson through Vinny’s daughter) first baseball game of the season. We didn’t realize until we got there that it was a double header. It was a beautiful day out for sure- bright and sunny for most of the day. The game was going on and everyone was socializing. At one point we put on some music and the kids played together on the grassy area beside the field. Baby Sophia truly stole the show with her unbelievably advanced nature - she’s talking up a storm, super independent and so full of personality. She stayed happy and content the entire time (over 5 hrs), which was simply amazing to me. Today I showed her how to put her sunglasses on her head and she caught right on and kept them there most of the day. If they fell down, she made sure to put them right back up- it was a crack up!

At first, as I was watching the game – I found myself thinking of all kind of random things, my mind was just wandering. So I decided my intention for the day was to simply unwind my mind. Not think about my upcoming week and impending travel plans. I wanted to be mindful of not consuming myself with the details of the projects I have going on or anything else. I just wanted to disconnect, unwind and be in the moment. And that is exactly what I did.

I enjoyed the family, the kids and the afternoon in the fresh air. And as for our evening, instead of trying to catch up on all the things that could be getting done…I decided to follow suit with my lovely day and simply remain relaxed and enjoy the end of my weekend with my amazing family. #HGAL365  

Day 111 – Life in Bloom

Today is Elijah’s birthday so our day was busy and awesome. We woke up and hung out together talking and relaxing- just the three of us. I brought out a bunch of his baby pictures and we reminisced as I told him some of my favorite stories of him as a baby. As I made us all a nice breakfast, the sun was shining, our sliders were open, the ocean air was refreshing and the town was buzzing with people everywhere.

Elijah decided for his birthday he wanted to go get some new shoes and clothes, see the Avengers and wanted to see the Mayweather/Pacquiao fight tonight here at the house and asked me if I would make nachos and quesadillas to snack on. So that is just what we did. We took him shopping, out to lunch, saw the movie and went to the market to get supplies for his snacking request and we just ordered the fight and our evening begins when I am done writing this entry.

Anyhow, in the midst of our shopping trip I saw the most beautiful trees in bloom. I said “Sweetie, I want to take pictures of us under those trees if that’s cool with you.” I wanted to do it as my intention. These trees were just so amazingly beautiful! They looked like cherry blossoms but I’m not sure that they were. As we turned the corner to find parking, the entire way was lined with them and it was practically breathtaking. Both Elijah and Vinny obliged my request and we took the pictures. Normally, I would have admired the trees in bloom and move on but am happy this blog made me intentionally stop and embrace this beautiful nature and what I see as life truly in bloom. #HGAL

Day 110 – May Day

Earlier today I was chattin with a couple of friends. One of them was talking about the fact that today was “May Day”. I asked her what that was and she said when she was in school – the first day of May was highly celebrated as May Day. The tradition was to give flowers on that day to a neighbor or friend. There were other festivities that went along with that as well. I looked it up and it is actually an international holiday lol – who knew??

I instantly said to them, “Awesome, I know what my intention for my blog will be today then”. After I left I ran some errands and took a brief beach break then went to the store to look for some pretty flowers that I felt best represented May. I decided on a bouquet of pink mini roses. They were so fresh, clean and happy looking – I just love pink flowers!!

So I went to Michaels to look for a cute way to present them to my friends, Jen and Lena. For Jen, I got a super cute vase shaped like a milk bottle with the inscription “Dream” on it. For Lena, I got a really cute mug with an L on it. I went home and prepared their May Day gifts. With the leftover flowers, I created a bouquet for my home and placed it in a small mason jar that I painted a while back.

Then, the craziest thing happened. Vinny came home from work and had bought me a pink rose bush that was planted in the cutest pot. I just stood there a little stunned. I asked him, did you know it was May Day? He was like “What? No, I just saw these and wanted to get them for you cause I love you”. When he saw the pink roses I bought we just started laughing…. So connected…. What are the chances?

Anyhow, so I had my gifts ready to deliver but guess what? Lena wasn’t home and Jen had company at her home (I didn’t want to interrupt) so they will have to both be delivered tomorrow. It’s fine though, they are beautiful and ready to go and were prepared today as my May Day intention. Happy Friday!!