She truly was my sister
And for the remainder of my living days
I am deeply going to miss her
I can think of
her and smile
This year has
helped to clear the fogI feel I have truly honored her life
By living out this blog.
What a strangely beautiful, bitter sweet feeling I have
today. I feel that this blog has been one of the best things I have ever done.
I feel like I set out on a journey of healing and a way to honor my cousin and
whole heartedly feel that I have done just that.
I vividly remember the first day I began this blog and
how it went from idea to manifestation in the same day. I had no idea of the
changes, healing, fun and even challenges this would bring. When I began I was
a stay at home mom with a small furniture booth I ran. I had no idea that only
3 months later, I would get an opportunity that was truly a career shift. I
went from all the time in the world on my hands to a full time job. Some days
this proved challenging but looking back it only makes me more proud of my
determination and follow through. Also, I feel that it is a good example to
those that think they just don’t have the time to do something every day to
improve their personal life.
I have received a lot of feedback over the last year from
perfect strangers and people I know saying that the blog has changed their life
and way of living. That makes my heart truly happy knowing that something good
for others has come from this – and I just know for a fact that Heather would
be so touched and happy about that.
Meanwhile, this blog has brought me to meet and connect
with many amazing people both local and country wide. The blog is officially
being read in over 20 countries, which is absolutely astounding to me. I would like
to officially thank every single person who has ever taken the time to read
this blog. I look forward to you continuing to tune into the new blog that
begins next week. I will not be writing every day but it will be quite often
and will continue in this same theme of living with intention, trying new
things and MORE!!!
For my blog today I actually got a cake and had them
write on it “HGAL365 Farewell Friend”. I had my mom over and while I was
cooking dinner we all did a lovely toast to Heather. After dinner we ate the
cake and popped off a confetti bomb (yup….right in the house lol) as a final
farewell to my cousin and friend and in celebration of the last year. It was
just so nice to be surrounded by my family on this very important evening. Cheers
to an amazing life lived by Heather.
I would like to take the time to thank some very
important people in my life that have been absolutely instrumental to me in
this process during the last year.
Vinny- My husband, best father ever (father by choice not
just blood), best friend in the world, biggest supporter and for the last year
my cameraman (most days). He has been there to join me in many of my quests
even though he works many hours. I’m sure he didn’t always want to be out doing
it all…but he never complained. He offered words of support, tried to help me
to come up with ideas on things to do when I was stumped, made sure the house
was quiet when I sat down to write, assisted even more than usual with the
house and shopping or whatever I needed. We laughed a lot and had a ton of fun
too. From Day 1 all the way through to Day 365, he never missed a night and my
cup truly overflows with appreciation for the man he is in every single way.
Thank you my love!
My Boys- Brian, Micah and Elijah. I know every mom thinks
this but I truly was blessed over and over and then over again with these three
guys entering my life. And in true form and as they always have been, they
stepped up and supported me yet again. When I was in NC to visit, Brian made
sure each night I never missed my midnight deadline. He checked in and asked
how it was going and always offered words of support. Micah also offered his
words of support and was willing to get out of his comfort zone and try new
things for my intentions and we ended up having so much fun together. Elijah
joined me on many of my adventures and sincerely told me how proud he was of me
on more than one occasion and told me how proud he knew Heather would be of me
too. They all adjusted and jumped to it whenever they heard me say the words
“do it for the blog” which was so sweet of them all. I don’t know many teenaged
and grown men that would have remained so involved in their mother’s endeavor
but they were. They know what Heather meant to me and they loved her too. I hope
they were able to learn as I did from this experience. Thank you sweetie pies!!
Mom- I can’t say enough how happy I was when my mom came
to live in Rhode Island. She isn’t just my mom, she is my friend. I am so happy
to have been able to have included her in so many of my activities. She was
always good to go anytime I asked her if she wanted to come participate or even
just to take the pics (a million thank for the Christmas Day beach pics- great
job!!). She loved Heather a great deal and I know it was important for her to
be able to be a part of this blog as much as possible. As with Vinny, my mom
never missed a day. She read the blog and sent me messages regarding every
single one. I appreciate that support from the bottom of my heart. Thanks
mommy!!
Corina- My sissy pooh. We are closer now than ever and I
truly appreciate your continued love and support. You are my friend, my sister,
my confidant and loyal reader. Although we live the length of the country
apart, you are right here by my side and I by yours. Thank you for your love,
laughs and constant encouragement. Thank you for being such a major part in the
lives of Heathers family. You are truly their blessing so keep up the good
work!! Love you now…Love you always.
Lindsey- My bestie. We have been friends for so many
years now. Thanks for your support and love. Have we ever, ever talked once
without laughing? I love that! Not sure many people know me like you do.
Heather would have loved you so much and I am sad you never got the opportunity
to meet her. I appreciate your friendship and for reading the blog whenever you
can. I know as a busy mom of two little ones, it’s not always easy. But I
appreciate still being a priority in your life as you are in mine. Cheers!!!
(Chee-aahs) lol
Jen- You are a true doll! We have been in each others lives
in one capacity or another off and on for 17 years now and I have always adored
you and we have had fun in the past but this year I feel we became true
friends. I am thankful and blessed that again (for the third time) we lived in
the same part of the country…this time just roads apart. Thank you for our
walks, talks, dinners and more. Vinny and I are all the better for having you
and Carlos in our lives. Your support with my blog truly matters to me. I appreciate
you reading it faithfully and all the lovely feedback. Love you girlie!!
Tammy- So much more than a boss. You are truly my friend. I
appreciate on every single level that from the moment you found out about my
blog, you embraced it so. You took part in a number of my intentions, even with
your daughters! I appreciate you researching and looking up things for me to do
and giving me so many awesome ideas for fun stuff since you are a native and I
was new to the area. Good looking out!! I thank you for letting me leave early
at times because you knew just how important this all was to me. But most of
all I cherish and appreciate the friendship we have come to have and I believe
in my heart the blog intentions had so much to do with that. You are an amazingly
strong woman, super duper funny and I am the better for having you in my life!
Kim- Coworker and friend. Thank you for the supportive
talks. Thank you for being involved also in my intentions and even getting your
granddaughter, Justice involved. I appreciate that you said I have inspired
you. I thank you for your support and friendship and always reading the blog
and being so excited about it right along with me. I appreciate the feedback
you give and appreciate the fact that you take the time to be involved. xo
Lena- I’m sure you’re going to be humble and say you haven’t
done anything but you have supported me from the very first day with this blog!
I am so blessed to have such an awesome neighbor and someone that has become
such a true friend. Thank you for the walks, the talks, the laughter and yummy
snacks! You rock!!
To my readers- Thank you for reading. Thank you for the
feedback. Thank you for your support. Thank you for embracing this blogs
premise and understanding what it meant to me. But best of all…thank you for
listening and loving the memories of my lovely, amazing, most cherished cousin
Heather.
I will be starting a new blog. This blog will be named and
announced on this blog in one additional post no later than Jan 17th
so please stay tuned.
God bless you all and as always #HGALforever #Cheers